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I’m 23 living with my mom who quits her job whenever she wants. We are both working and I told her I want to leave in March which is 50+ days away.

She gets upset and says how I’m messed up for leaving the lease and she said I didn’t give her enough notice but when she quits her job ALL of the bills are on me. Our rent is $1095. Even when she works I still pay more than half the bills. I’ve sacrificed my life and given up things such as school even hanging out with friends because I was always being the provider. She blamed me saying she could’ve gotten govt. assistance for housing but I ruined it since she has gotten off of it.

The past 2-3yrs she has had 10+ jobs not even staying at those places for 5 months!! I’m tired and I want to leave. I told her that I’ll stay until the end of the lease but honestly my flight has already been booked for early in the morning on March 29th.

What should I do?

I also need help planning my escape because she gets up early for work & my house stairs is NOT quiet.

He was away at college, that is where I knew him from. We were kinda friendly acquaintances, but generally had some low key sexual tension. He began to express more clearly that he was interested in exploring that side with me. I told him I was seeing other people bc I didn’t want him to feel played, an he said it didn’t matter to him. Since I live 30 minutes from campus he just spent the night. Yes, we hooked up and we slept in the same bed—twice except we didn’t go all the way the second time. Also had a couple head sesh’s/FaceTime/sexting. He’d call me boo & baby & send cute emojis. But 3 times he’d delete or block me and then reappear claiming his phone was messed up and you know I wouldn’t delete you boo... He graduated this term and deleted me again an I didn’t hear from him for a bit. I thought we’d had a little misunderstanding an never got to say bye so I sent a fairly long text saying I understand if he’s moving forward but was sorry I didn’t get to say bye an I enjoyed our times together an he’s the best. He sent back kind of a formalish but friendly reply thanking me for helping on his journey and being there an time together. That I was the best and he’d never forget another me that I know that. Sent back a 💞 an we didn’t talk since.

Fast forward 2 months later this girl adds me on tiktok. I accept an add her back. It’s when I start watching her videos that I discover she’s been dating this guy before last semester even started. One even showed her gushing over the texts he’d sent her like the same months we were hanging. I still wonder what made her add me to begin with but here’s the problem. Clearly I was a fling it’s fine, but I feel bad for her. Obviously he was playing both sides of it an that’s probably why he’d delete me. Should I tell her, especially since I no longer have the texts that clearly show him cheating. Or should I just let it go as him deleting me with no further contact shows he’s straightened up and being loyal now?