Last week I (22M) met an Italian girl (22F) who came to the United States 2 weeks ago on Bumble. We've talked like a week and after that arranged a date. Before the date we have seen each other most naturally (no poses, no effects) on FaceTime. And after FaceTime she texted me "you're so cute I wanna see right now -time was 3am- and sent me a voice message “I like you but I don’t know if u liked me bla bla”. She was hanging with her friends in Manhattan and wanted to take a train ride to see me to Long Island at that time. I said no because I thought it will be better to see her in a larger time and arranged a meeting for after that day. I asked her to hold her hand while I'm driving and she letted me. I took her to nice restaurant, drank some wine etc. . After the date she said she's available after work in the week and fully free on weekends before I asked. Before I dropped her I asked for a goodbye kiss and just gave me kiss on my cheek. In the morning I texted her "hey I had a nice time, enjoyed your company I wanna see you again if u also like to" and never got respond. She left me on delivered. I'm a bit confused what she didn't like about me. I don't think it's because appearance because we did FaceTime already she was seeming so hyped to meet me. Maybe she's not satisfied of my financial situation. I've been here to different world just for 7 months and I still don't have a classy car. I don't have any financial support after me so I'm tryna get things done by myself. She might be feel uncomfortable because I wanted the things get done faster. I'm pretty new on dating apps and have not lot of experience on dating face to face. I need your help guys to figure out what I’ve done wrong. I think I wanted develop the things so quick
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It does not seem like you did anything wrong. Her Expectations are different than your. current Ability. No one is bad or lacking person here. At this moment, you are in different places in this life.
Let her rest until after Valentine’s Day. Around February 23, shoot her another text, “hope all is well.” That will be your last contact. Do not encourage her as she must act on her own. “I’m not childish kind of mad” is all you are trying to communicate.
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She literally wanted to see you at 3 am, and you rejected her
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It could be any number of things
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Call her on the phone and talk to her
You put yourself in the friendzone I guess
Why can't you just move on?
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