Am I being ghosted?

[Lozzalou02]

Hi so I've been talking to this guy for a few weeks now and we have met up twice we were supposed to go on a date today but I haven't heard from him all day last night he said he would have a few things to do first but its now 9 at night and still haven't heard anything am I being ghosted or over thinking this

[SueShe]

Looks like that fellow has lost interest in you or has had something else coming up that was more important to him than to go on a date with him.

That is a pretty bad way to start a relationship and either he got cold feet or he forgot about you. Whatever it was, that is not a good sign.

I would give up on a person that does not have the decency to either excuse himself or find a pathetic excuse but just finds it easier to go silent on his date.

Time to move on and try to find someone that is more reliable.

[Lozzalou02]

Thank you I've had a think and realised I deserve better than this either way he could of messaged and explained why he wasn't coming a bit of communication goes along way so I think I'm gonna cut it off here at this point

[Feltonstar]

Ooft. First mistake was allowing him to treat you like an afterthought.

'I have thing to do first so not sure when I'll be free'.

'Thats ok. It sounds like tomorrow isn't good for you. Let's do something on a day you are less busy'.

You don't let people put you on the back burner. If he was a boyfriend who you knew respected you it might be ok to 'call me when you're free' but not someone who is 2 dates in and should want to impress you.

He doesn't value your time.

Secondly, if it's 9pm, it's too late if he texts now. That's hookup territory. And unless you've told him that's all you want, he is disrespecting you.

In future, men make concrete plans at least 2 days before. Including the time and place. Or:you. do. not. agree. to. meet.

Write this guy off. He's a f* boy.

Value your time more.

[Lozzalou02]

Thank you

[Nikki1989]

Talking or texting?

Those two are worlds apart.

[Lozzalou02]

Been talking getting to know each other started calling each other babe and planned for a date but I think he's ignoring me now

[JDLives]

You’re overthinking it. Give him time.

[In_Trance]

Yeah