Am I being ghosted?

[Anonymous]

So I met a guy on Bumble, He swiped right on me and then I matched with him, and he replied to one of my prompts suggesting a sushi place for the both of us to go to, I told him I was down and told him he can text me on my number which I give to him because I don't frequent the app a lot. Anyway, he texted and we started to chat, about random things, and then he told me he was going to bed around 10:00 pm, and he's a college student so I thought he had classes early Monday morning, The next morning he responeed to my message around 11:31 am, and we talked again, the last message I sent to him was around 12:41 pm, and he hasn't responded and it's 10:21 pm in the night. So…?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that does seem a little suspicious sis. Goin ghost after your last message is definitely a red flag.

A few possibilities I can think of:

- He lost interest and is too chicken to actually say so, so he's just not responding. Dudes be flaky like that sometimes.

- He could be legit busy with school stuff, but it's still whack that he didn't even send a quick text saying he'd hit you up later or something.

- Possibility something came up in his personal life too I guess, but still seems rude not to let you know.

At this point if it was me, I'd give it another day or two and if still nada, I'd take the hint he's dipping out. You can always send one last text being like "hey everything okay? Just checking in" but if still leaves you on read, fuck em.

Don't waste your time chasing some dude who isn't making you a priority sis! Your fine self deserves better. Keep your options open and if he gets back, really see if he steps it up before giving him another chance.

Don't stress, his ghosting says everything about him, not about you girl! Keep shining 💅

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

So... ? Yes, so what?

Why aren't you considering that people have things to do? Why are you considering that your identity has ceased to exist, that you are """being ghosted""", when, reasonably, it's just a day that has passed without reaction, for just a guy you don't even know yet? In other words, you are building up on pressure for no actual reasons at all. Glass of water, open a book, watch a movie, live your life. How about that? Now go :D

[SueShe]

Looks like you are ghosted indeed. Is this Bumble thingie a dating app? If yes, you realize that those men on them actually are only interested in getting into the girls' pants and nothing else. They don't want a long term relation, they don't want commitment, they don't want anything else but fornication.

You haven't given him what he was looking for in a time frame that he wanted and thus, it is obvious that he has moved ahead and tried to find another victim for his scheme.

If you are serious about a relationship, then avoid those women traps and find yourself someone in real life, not on those hook up sites.

[itsannalee]

He just talks to u to spend his free time. Like when he is bored and no one to talk.

[Anonymous]

Probably and you probably deserve it because you reject people all the time I am guessing. Try going outside and meeting people. Not just feeding your ego on dating apps.

[noohair]

Until you meet and pass the smell test, he is a fantasy.

[Malwi93]

lol what

[noohair]

@Malwi93
I am not speaking specifically about smell, but smell is important. When you meet face to face you get the real vibe, feel chemistry and know more about the person. You have met people and got a feeling of yes or no. It is just a normal human situation.

[Anonymous]

You are being used by the sound of it.

[In_Trance]

Yeah