Am I being ghosted?

[SassyStar47]

I have been talking to this guy for like a week now. We’re supposed to go on a date in like a day. He hadn’t texted back from like a day ago, which isn’t crazy long. But should I even bother confirming? Or consider this a ghosting situation?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Nowadays unfortunately we live in a twisted world where people block people, unblock people & block people again. We live in a twisted world where people friend people, unfriend people & friend them again. We live in a twisted world where people follow people, unfollow people & follow them again. We live in a twisted world where people text here, text there, text again, text, text, text & the next thing you know your text message is left unread. We live in a twisted world where people make plans & last minute they break those plans & they make plans with other people. We live in a twisted world where you meet someone one day & they vanish without a trace the next day.

As for your upcoming date or the date you are supposed to have confirmation is a good thing & if he doesn’t respond to your message call his ass & if he doesn’t pick up leave a voicemail & if you don’t hear back from him your date is cancelled & if truth be told you are better off with him.

In life if you never try you will never know.

[OlderAndWiser]

Just wait to her from him. You'll have your answer soon!

[Explorer91]

Some guys do not like talking right before the date or leading up to it.. as to not piss her off or give her a reason or excuse to bail. It could be that. Or it could be he is weighing his options. If you only known a guy a week. He could be talking and planning with multiple women. Could be waiting for a reply from someone else. Or he could be ghosting. You will see soon enough.

[didichi]

I would wait and see. If he hasn’t responded maybe bring it up and see if he responds. If he doesn’t then yeah I would drop him.

[Flatmanlewis]

Just wait. It’s only been one day. He could have something going on in life and you don’t want to pry. Just let it run it’s course. I’d say by today sometime you could reasonably expect an answer. If not, well, there’s your answer.

[bobalife]

It’s hard to say, wait for the day of to determined.

[SassyStar47]

Wait for him to message me?

[bobalife]

Yeah

[Sevenpointfive]

you were going on a date in a day? and you didn't? that's not good

[SassyStar47]

Yeah on Monday basically. A little over a day

[Sevenpointfive]

honey. i don't know why but you were ghosted

[SassyStar47]

Well that sucks :(

[Sevenpointfive]

well, now you can go out and buy your chihuahua a real bed instead of sleeping in stack of money?

[Iron_Man]

it looks like you’re being ghosted. He should be confirming and staying in touch with you

[spartan55]

A phone call could have prevented all of this.