Am I being ghosted?

[Unrealiseddream]

I met a guy through a friend in a club. He dropped me home and asked to come in to use the bathroom. He asked to kiss me. I agreed. He ended him pleasuring me with his hands but I did not want to sleep with him he went home. Few days later he messaged and asked what I hoped would happen between us and I said I'd like to go out and do stuff etc. He said he's in an open relationship and I said that I'd want him to actually spend time with me etc we left it at that. I see him again a month after. The same thing happened. But this time we actually were sober so we talked for hours got to know eachother. We seemed to have good chemistry. Nothing sexual happened until he was leaving and he thrust his hands into me and I squirted LOADS. Like a puddle. He seemed in awe of this. But I said I would not be sleeping with him unless we get to know eachother more, go hang out , actually do something. Id made that much clear. Well since that night he hasn't contacted me at all. That was last Saturday. I understand this means he has had his little bit of fun and is not bothered to go any further. Is it likely that I'll never hear from him again?

[teamvic]

Well firstly. How you want to get to know him more if he's seen your pussy😐

Secondly, that's typically what open relationships are, the sex part only while being with someone else romantically, I don't know how that works but it's how it is. So to answer your question. Most likely yes you won't get with him and he doesn't want anything more than sex with you

Unless he breaks up with the girl. It ain't gonna happenn

[Unrealiseddream]

I mean I haven't slept with him. No oral neither. Just kissing and hand pleasure. But yeah I guess I should have said no to the kisses or anything he asked for. I thought if I held out on full sex that would be enough. Guess I got that wrong this time though.

[teamvic]

It would appear so

[ProbablyClueless]

Relationships require both people to participate. If you want to talk with him, why haven't you reached out to contact him?

[BarryLiverstone]

Not ghosted as you don’t have a relationship. Do you want to see him again?

[spartan55]

He has a girlfriend anyway.

[MasterKS]

Poor dude failed here!