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Search Results: focus on a relationship
Guy dates many girls?
I ve seen pictures of him lying in the same couch with girls, legs entwined or in hot tubs with girls. He routinely goes out to drink and meet women. He has several female friends and I wouldn't be surprised if he has...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is she testing me?
So there's this girl who I previously dated that things didn't work out with because she thought I was becoming too needy and lost all my focus in life. However, I got my shit together and am happier than ever atm and it...
Anonymous
(25-29) How can I make him change?
This is probably the most common question here (other than “how do I look”). Women choose insensitive, inconsiderate partners, expecting them to change. Sometimes they claim he wasn’t insensitive or inconsiderate at the...
Do you work toward happiness?
I've come to realize that happiness comes and goes in waves regardless of situations. I enjoy the ride when it comes. I don't chase it though. I focus my sight on self development and growth. Happiness occasionally...
Swollerbear
Xper 3 Age: 32 Can anyone tell me what's my moms deal?
My mom and I have never had a consistent healthy relationship. She has always been there for me when I'm crying but she's not a good listener where I can express myself. It's always cut short and to the point with her....
Anonymous
(30-35) Does taking a break from dating helps with improving yourself more?
I noticed that when I decided to take the year off from dating, it took a lot off of my plate. Years I had few family members complain about my bachelor's status. I told them that for years, I hadn't found the right...
scott04sa22
Guru Age: 40 Lust vs Love, don't get confused
Love and lust are two different emotions or feelings that can sometimes be confused with each other, but they are distinct and have some key differences. Here are a few: Intention: Love is often accompanied by feelings...
Is this just a me thing?
The thing is, I'm fairly new to relationships and dating and true love. I'm the past, I've been focused on school. But now that I'm done with school and start focusing more on my dating life (since I'm close to my 30s),...
Sailormoon95
Xper 4 Age: 31 If I keep focusing on my career, will it be very likely that I am going to stay single for a long time?
so... in life my career is been progressing so well, I have big plans and all that, I study a lot... but , when I was younger, I could find a mate easily because I wasn't so... experienced as I am now and have different...
DenizLikesTennis
Xper 7 Age: 29 BREAKDOWN: The Friend Zone
THE FRIEND ZONE refers to a situation where one person in a friendship wants to become more than friends with the other person, while the other person sees them only as a friend. The friend zone can also be a...
Is it so wrong for me to want peace for myself?
For three long and exhausting years I put up with physical, emotional and mental abuse from my ex/now father of my son who is only two months. I forgave him countless times, saw good in him and believed he could and would...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it possible to have a happy and healthy life without ever having sex?
I'm actually over 21 and I've never had sex or even kissed a girl, I'm extremely ugly and unattractive, I see women in everyday life and on social media, and I can't imagine myself being attractive to them. It's weird,...
Anonymous
(25-29) The Mentality Behind Ghosting, How to Recover From Getting Ghosted, and Why You Should Not Ghost!
Foreword: This applies to both friendships and dating. Ghosting, in this instance, refers to the sudden cessation of contact via any means, such as text or in-person contact, for any reason. Disclaimer: All opinions and...
xJeremyx
Xper 6 Age: 25 Why do some men enjoy future faking?
I've been lately reading about this a lot. It's about these men that are in a relationship and purposely string along women, promise to form a family one day but it's a lie the whole time. I understand the girl is at...
ChicanaChick
Xper 6 Age: 28 Is she playing with me or cheating on me or both?
Guys, it's the end of 2022. The year has been more or less a rollercoaster for me. I got my ups and downs especially because of a former colleague and a Gemini chick at work. I will focus on that chick. As you may have...
Ericky
Xper 6 Age: 36 Are we friends or acquaintances?
I have a non romantic relationship with a guy. We have a history dating back to high school where we started as crushes, became friends and planned a relationship. Things did not work out and over the past few years we...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it true that a guy should love a girl more?
We’re both in our early 20’s. I’ve had strong feelings for the same guy for 5 years. We’ve dated before but broke up due to graduating high-school & distance. We’re still good friends and visit each other but I always...
xsungoddessx
Xper 2 Age: 26 Is it a bad idea to postpone getting into a relationship until you're older?
I just turned 26 and I'm single. I've put a hold on my dating life, I'm taking some time to work on my mental as well as to focus on getting into a better financial standing. I'm dealing with some anxiety and I tend to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is he pressing for us to be together so bad rather than just co parent with me?
Before I got pregnant with my son, my child’s father and I were very toxic and always on and off. He was also very abusive physically and he still is abusive emotionally, verbally and mentally. I even left him at five...
Anonymous
(25-29) If I really want marriage and children should I heavily focus on it and pursue it or should I let go of the desire and let it happen on it's own time?
I have always wanted marriage and children. But it has not happened for me yet. Sometimes I find myself thinking about it a lot. All my friends are in relationships and have kids. Sometimes it makes me feel like I'm...
Anonymous
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