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Can anyone tell me what's my moms deal?

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My mom and I have never had a consistent healthy relationship.

She has always been there for me when I'm crying but she's not a good listener where I can express myself. It's always cut short and to the point with her.

But for others she's more emotionally present.

Since I've been pregnant she seems disgusted, angry and upset with me. she's pulled up with a turned lip at me before but when I asked her about it she claimed it was about her car eventhough moments before she had a problem with taking me down the street to the store because I was supposed to ask my boyfriend to take her and not her.

she's lied all the time how she will be there for me. She bitches and complains all the time if I ask for help.

I dont understand what I ever did to her.

I know she's upset because my boyfriend struggles with putting me as a priority before I found out I was pregnant. And he failed to be on time a few times.

Him and I did couples counseling and he got it together a bit, but he's still pretty forget ful.

I know for a fact she doesn't want me treated like garbage especially if I'm pregnant. And I understand her as she was treated like shit by my dad.

I've told her regardless if km with a man or not ok m going to be happy and I need her support. If not psychical support emotional support.

she's been neglectful emotionally since me growing up though...

she's also upset I didn't get engaged or married lol.
Tbh i dont think i wanna be married. I do want to be engaged. she's been married to my dad now maybe for 12 years... but they separated right away literally after 1 or 2 months.. so I dont believe its that.

My therapist thinks it's because my mom can't use me anymore as I have a kid to focus on.. it's very strange how my mom is acting. Like I sent her a photo of food I'm craving and she just said ok.

she's very cold to me now. Very strange.

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