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By pick me, I mean the type of woman who constantly seeks male approval by agreeing with whatever men say, even when it goes against her own interests. For example, if a man criticizes women that wear bikinis at the beach, the pick me is the first to nod along even though she herself is often seeking validation and attention. The issue is that a pick me’s loyalty isn’t really to you; her loyalty is to being chosen. And if her whole identity revolves around being picked, what happens when someone else gives her that attention? But I’m sure men realize when a women is desperate for approval, so my question is, do you see someone desperate to be liked by all men as marriage material? She’ll do whatever you want, but how worthy is she and will she loose interest once others give her attention?