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Search Results: turn offs for a guy
Girls, Is the girl at the shop interested or just being friendly with me?
About 2 months ago I noticed a woman at one of the stores I frequent was staring at me a lot and I slowly started talking to her. I worked up the nerve one day and I complimented her hair and she got really happy started...
Anonymous
(30-35) Ex is secretly watching me?
My ex initiated and talked to me after months of no contact. He turned off read receipts for my chat. I shared number there. When he didn’t call I deleted. 5 minutes later he rang back and I didn’t pick. Also for no...
Anonymous
(18-24) Girls, Is it a turn off if an autistic guy doesn’t have any friends?
Let’s say he’s interested in you but doesn’t have much of a social life would you consider that a red flag
Anonymous
(30-35) Is being "soft spoken" bad?
A lof guys I went to date with, told me "I'm soft spoken" Is it bad or good? What men think soft spoken woman? Is it a turn off or turn on?
Anonymous
(25-29) What is it that gay men see in shy awkward men that women don't?
I'm eternally shy and awkward. However I have had a lot of attention from women. The problem is about 90% of women are put off and visibly turned off by my shyness. The other 10% don't seem to care. But every gay guy...
Anonymous
(30-35) Selfish mom didn’t make me be mixed?
My mom is half Indian and she has mixed features and nice hair. All her life she got special treatment because of it. Her wash day is sooo easy and she always gets sleek styles with just water. Her hair is better than...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do you deal with being on the other side of unrequited love?
I met this guy whilst on a training course with my work. He was first to approach me and I was very shy and nervous on the course but him and another guy really bought me out of my shell and supported me a lot. I moved...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I tell him or not?
Since I started heavily playing a certain multiplayer, people mistook me for a prepubescent boy because of my voice. I gave up correcting them--I only have one chance encounters with them through matchmaking anyway (and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why give me another chance?
hey why would a guy who barely likes you more than a friend because you wouldn't give him space and he doesn't want to date you for that reason decide to give you a chance to change so you could date in the future? we...
Maldesia00
Xper 4 Age: 33 Is it weird if I text him after all this time?
I met a guy on tinder last year while I was visiting his city. It was unexpected as we both were looking for something casual but we ended up really liking each other, we got together every day for almost three weeks. It...
Anonymous
(25-29) What should I do to get rid of him?
Yesterday I was at the supermarket and I saw a very handsome guy, he was at the checkout and he was with another guy his size, and when the other guy turned around, I think I froze for three seconds, it was his twins, I...
12karen
Yoda Age: 22 Why do guys still try to talk to you even after you tell them that you have a boyfriend?
I recently activated Facebook because it was my birthday and I usually will upload pics and interact with a few people. An old friend, that is probably like 6/7 years younger, who used to live next door from me when I was...
Anonymous
(36-45) Guys, would this be considered flirting?
Sooo... not really sure about this. A guy that I take my car to and I have always had normal conversation. The other day I had to go see him and we were chatting and I gave him my keys like I always do. Out of the blue he...
Lover2274
Xper 1 Age: 30 How different are you from your friends?
They say you are who you hang out with, but I was pretty different from my friends. When I started middle school, I was already deemed a hoe by association because the only people who welcomed me at this new school was...
Why do most men on dating apps get sexual within a conversation in no time?
Like I find it weird, I start a conversation with a guy which starts off talking about life in general and hobbies Then in no time they start talking sexual like like they what turns you on etc Like I find it...
Anonymous
(30-35) My ex finally got arrested for domestic violence on someone else.. I’m upset that justice took so long
In 2014, I was beaten so badly by my ex and he got away with it every time. He beat me for so many years😭😭 we broke up and he was sending text messages to his phone as if it was me. He was also beating on that girl and...
Paradiseequeen
Explorer Age: 35 
Anonymous
(25-29) He says he didn't block me, his phone got turned off... is he lying?
The guy I hook up with doesn't answer me a lot of the time when I text him. This is usually for a couple of days and the stuff I'm saying to him a guy would DEFINTELY answer back. He didn't talk to me since Wednesday of...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is a unattractive sounding voice a deal breaker?
I never really thought about it until it happened to me. I went on a date with a guy. I was so physically attracted to him and he and me really hit it off. But his voice! I had a few wines... you would think that would...
Explorer91
Xper 6 Age: 35 Guys, do you get turned off by girls a few years older than you?
Im talking about only a few years older like 3-4 years? For example if you’re 21 and the girl is 24?
Anonymous
(25-29) 