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Lately, myself and some friends close to me have noticed that 2 work colleagues seem to have an unhealthy obsession with me.

Largely I keep myself to myself, and only engage in polite conversation with both males - as I do with everyone else. However, one of the guys has now attempted to make physical contact with me but touching my hand, when I was sitting eating lunch one day. I was sitting myself and he came to chat to me and touched my hand when he was conversing with me. So I decided to avoid him. Then a few days ago, he was seen spying on me from through a book shelf while pretending to place books on the shelf. As soon as I noticed he was crouched down there looking at me, I removed myself from the area. My friend told me he was then running around looking for me.

As for the other guy, he manages personal items that are ordered into our work place. The items should be placed on a reservation shelf for us to pick up - but he actually keeps my items so that I have to actually approach him to pick them up. He also makes comments when I try to collect resources from other collection points - insisting that I should be picking items up form his collection point. It’s getting tedious to be honest. And others are noticing.

Then, the other night I was approached by an odd guy dressed in a suit who started inquiring about my hobbies, personal life and romantic life. He was waiting to catch the same train as me and smiled when he saw me. He then approached me and said ‘sorry I hope you don’t mind me approaching you, but you look quite cute’ I just said thanks but felt quite awkward. He then sat with me for the 20 min train journey home, but never actually asked my name - which is weird. I feel as if he already knew my name and was looking specifically for me to get details. I’m inclined to believe he was hired to approach me by one of those 2 males. It was a seriously odd encounter.

I know he liked me in the past but he never asked me out so I grew bored and lost interest. But I like him again now and I have shown signs of interest and flirted back with him so I know he has somewhat of an idea that I’m interested in him. Sometimes, he will be extra flirty and make his interest super obvious but then on other days he seems to avoid eye contact and then at other times it’s like he’s trying so hard to get my attention. He flirts with me more often when I reciprocate and when I act like I’m not interested I notice him looking/stealing glances at me more and showing up to places I’m at to be near me and we will catch each others eye but he doesn’t try to flirt. By flirting I mean he locks eye contact and smiles while gazing at me or trying to talk to me indirectly through a group setting. I cannot tell if he is shy or just playing games because I’m getting so many mixed messages.