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Still just tramatized or this normal attraction norms?
L was strong in the beginning of pursuing me after a breakup from a narccist. I've noticed some common flags I noticed as first month 🚩loveboming🚩 asking me out I replied no let's know each other better. Not being...
milkicow
Xper 4 Age: 29 Would it be rude to turn my aunts space heater off?
My aunt lives with me. She left for a couple of hours, and I was about to leave. I noticed she had her door shut to her room. I went inside and she had her space heater going. Her fan, TV, and her lamp on. Its like she's...
Nicholas1302
Xper 5 Age: 32 What's this thing about?
If you click your profile pic in the top right corner of the screen, this bar pops up now above your xPer level and score... Is this something new or has this always been there and I'm just now noticing it? And what...
u Why do married people think they're so appealing?
when I was in college, there was this event called "speed mentoring", kinda like speed dating where you get assigned to 2 mentors and you will get to talk to them for the night. I met this married old retired man who...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is still trying to keep in contact with her?
Why would a guy try to keep in contact with a former coworker at his job that rejected him and so he teamed up with another woman at the job to set her up to be killed? He got fired and showed up on his birthday at the...
Anonymous
(30-35) My LDR boyfriend had frequently texted his exes/ flings during our relationship, it supposedly stopped but im having second thoughts?
Hey so, I’ve been in a LD relationship. At the earlier stages of the relationship, I noticed he would text/ send snaps to his exes every other day. At the time I didn’t tell him it bothered me directly but it was very...
Anonymous
(18-24) Am I overreacting?
Hey so, I’ve been in a LD relationship. At the earlier stages of the relationship, I noticed he would text/ send snaps to his exes every other day. At the time I didn’t tell him it bothered me directly but it was very...
Anonymous
(18-24) Am I wrong for still disliking my younger brother for an incident that happened 5 years ago?
Years ago, because I was being inconsiderate (I was wrong) for accidently inturrupting my brother's job interview, my brother gor very angry. It started when he picked my leg up (but he didn't hurt me). When we were in...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do I get a guy at the gym where I work out to notice that I am interested?
I am in a cycling class at my gym. Another guy in my class is also single I know this. He is sooo cute. I know we are there to work out and not to look for dates etc. How would I get his attention without seeming too...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do you think I'm a terrible person?
My brother and I own a mobile home. I only lived in it for a year and my brother lived in it for 7. When I lived in it, the windows leaked. My brother caulked them, and they don't leak anymore, but caulking will only do...
Nicholas1302
Xper 5 Age: 32 Should I date a best friends Ex?
Me an my friend are not as close anymore. We are friends but don’t see eachother a lot or speak a lot. She dated this guy about 6 years ago when we were younger. They never got to the relationship stage but were exclusive...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do I love being eye candy?
My abs are stating to poke through my new thing is going swimming. A lot of pools have mostly girls it seems anymore. Most the dudes are with their girlfriends or family. It’s all the single girls. I just sorta float...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why does this girl kept ragging on me for dating my ex boyfriend?
My ex and I only dated for three months and it didn’t work out. Well. Nobody felt bad for me because I knew how the guy was. The thing that was messed up was it was a friend’s ex boyfriend. I know, messed up. She dated...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is this water leaking from my car?
I looked under my car just to check and see if it was leaking oil, because I've had that problem in the past. I noticed that the gravel was dark underneath my car, so I got underneath, and looked at the bottom of my car....
Nicholas1302
Xper 5 Age: 32 Guys, Do you really get turned on by (feminine) gals who know enough about sports to watch a game and make a few basic comments?
Those who know me get that I'm a super straight shooter when I talk, but I'm very feminine in my manners, style, etc. My guy friend's jaw drops when I start talking about velocity, air quality and other factors that...
How much of your past is important to you?
My past is important to me in that I've learned from certain experiences, what to do when things happen. It's not just about how far I came, but how far I'm willing to go. It's vital to not let your past define you. In...
Vneila21
Xper 5 Age: 22 Are there many men that like to wear sexy revealing women clothes like me to look feminine at times?
Sometimes I think there are some men that want to be feminine, and they don't get much chance to express that in our society. If you or I want to look masculine (I'm a woman too), we can put on some saggy jeans and a...
danielamontoya06
Xper 5 Age: 34 Girls, Is this normal behavior of a broken woman that given up on love?
I have this friend who always smiled and laughed at everything I do and say for a year. To the point her boyfriend at the time got mad at her but tried to be friends with me. 1 year later of not talking as often as we...
Anonymous
(30-35) Good looking guy keeps coming around me and makes intense eye contact but has not been able to talk to me yet, does he likes me?
I attend this community service activity every weekend, 3 weekends ago I went into the building after parking my car and this guy came out of nowhere and was right behind me after I got in, he somehow made me notice him...
Wildflower8
Xper 5 Age: 28 How much mould do you tolerate on your food?
Lemme set the scene now... You open the cupboard or the bread-bin or whatever and take out the loaf of bread... and as you're getting some out of the pack to use it, you notice a slight white fuzziness on the corner of...
SotiCoto
Yoda Age: 42 
