Search Results: how to get over a broken relationship

Why does he keep feeling like he’s the bad guy in the relationship?

My boyfriend and I had been together for about 4 years. We had ups and downs, conflicts, communication issues, just common relationship things since we were both young when we started dating and were long distance (3...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I be concerned over my friends behaviour at my wedding?

I recently got married to the love of my life last month. Its was so magical and we had a fantastic time with all are friends and family. It was a pretty big wedding and invited a few of my childhoods friends. One of my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How can I get over my girlfriends past?

Dating my girlfriend for almost 5 years now, but something that she did in the first few months of our relationship was a major red flag but she seems to have acted nothing she did was wrong but it has been eating away at...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend read my mean posts about him, what do I do?

My boyfriend and I have a really amazing relationship and he’s definitely the man I want to marry. However we had gone through a really rough patch about 6 months ago and I posted a lot of questions/ vents about him. At...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I keep in contact with my ex? Broke up a week ago. We promised to be friends but things are going sour?

I 25M initiated a breakup with my girlfriend (23F) of 5 months last week. The reason was I never felt appreciated and also she was barely reciprocating in the relationship. I'm sure she loved me a LOT, but she just placed...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you say dating a woman as a broke man is not only a waste of time but more unnecessary stress added onto the man?

due to income always being a deal breaker with women and there are oftentimes relationship drama over money? As someone who has debt and is trying to better one's own life, I hardly ever have the idea of settling down...

Anonymous

(30-35)

due to income always being a deal breaker with women and there are oftentimes relationship drama over money? As someone who has debt and is trying to better one's own life, I

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Why doesn’t my boyfriend take me out anywhere?

hi guys, my boyfriend of nine years barely takes me out anywhere. i asked him why he doesn’t and he says it’s because he doesn’t get any reward from it and that i’m boring. it makes me sad because he goes out with his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What next after a change of heart?

Background: I have worked with this girl for best part of a year. The relationship has been professional throughout and everything has been work focused. I have always found her to be really nice, polite and intelligent....

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Xper 1 Age: 43

Break Up & Divorce

Should I continue talking to my ex? I suggested we should not talk for at least a month, but she insisted so I agreed and it's getting annoying?

I (24M) broke up with my ex-gf (22F) of 5 months 4 days ago. I tried to make it as easy as possible for her. I told her I didn't think we should speak to each other for at least a month as our emotions would still be...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you dump her or give her a chance to mature?

My girlfriend is 22 yo and it shows. She's a cool girl and very gorgeous, but her immaturity gets on my nerves. I feel like I'm dating a kid. She's always on TikTok, drooling over the dumbest shit and her mind is stuck...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Hey so break up?

I've been in the same relationship for 7 years and lived together for 6 and a half years been engaged for 2 years He cheated on me about 3 and a half years ago and yah I know I should have broke it off then but I didn't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Matched with my ex on Hinge. Advice on rekindling an old flame?

I was recently swiping away on Hinge when I came across my ex girlfriend of 2 years on there. We broke up 9 months ago, with her ending it over some trust issues I caused. I looked through her profile just like I would...

Whatitdo25

Xper 2 Age: 28

Break Up & Divorce

Should I break up with my boyfriend?

I am 21 and my boyfriend is 30. So recently my life has just gone downhill. I recently got fired and lost my job. I did get another job offer but was unable to take that job due to the shift ending in the middle of the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he done with the relationship?

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend & I have been together for 5 years now, and we have had a fair share of ups & downs. At the beginning, he used to cause most of the issues due to insecurity or other

My boyfriend & I have been together for 5 years now, and we have had a fair share of ups & downs. At the beginning, he used to cause most of the issues due to insecurity or other things which I forgave him for & moved on from. Over time, I did individual therapy to get past old trauma and we went to couple’s counseling unofficially for a couple of months which both was extremely helpful since we do have communication issues.

Recently, we decided to go on a vacation & he decided that he wanted to go to Niagara Falls since he was picky about the destination. I created a google doc & everything for the trip to keep track of expenses & itinerary. Since I was in charge of the rental car, I got it, picked him up from the airport, & he had normal behavior. That ended when we missed a turn, & he advised me to do a 3-point turn to which the police pulled me over for. I blamed him immediately & he got extremely upset to the point he didn’t want to talk to me anymore even though he was still a little at fault regardless if it was my decision to do it.

Later on in the trip, he quickly realized he didn’t pack the right clothes so I gave him both of my jackets so he wouldn’t be cold. He tried to do the half sharing jacket thing, & I told him no since the jacket was wet & he got very upset again where he stated “you ruined the trip because of your attitude.” By the end of the trip, he stated how we’re “so different”, how he is unhappy due to thinking about all the bad things he’s done in the past to me, & wants me to be with someone better. I was shocked since I thought he moved on from it, & I advised him to start therapy since he stated he wasn’t sure what he wanted from life himself. He kept rejecting the idea of it stating how it wouldn’t help, but eventually agreed to try. I told him I didn’t want to break up since I personally wasn’t unhappy being with him & my happiness is my decision to which he said “it’s not about you, it’s me.” What do you think? We are long distance

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What do I do🫠 is it over for good?

I’ll go with a timeline to make this easier January 14- we met through mutual friends and hit it off February something like 16- I took his v card without being in a relationship February 16 to like march 16 -...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Communication issue?

Relationship has ended, living in same house. That can’t be changed right now. It’s a huge communication break down that ended it- I got upset and didn’t communicate it properly. I want to talk to him about this. Since...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I get over the regret of choosing the "bad" girl over the good girl?

A year ago, there were two girls (two friends) interested in me. Let's call them Girl A and Girl B. I initially was interested in girl A because she was really hot. I chatted to her for a bit, then realised our...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to get over a HOT BADBOY who you never had a chance with?

How am I supposed to keep living happily if this type of guy will never commit. And my only option for a stable relationship is some undesirable? Sexually unappealing undesirable. The BADBOY is entitled and demonic. And...

Anonymous

(25-29)