Matched with my ex on Hinge. Advice on rekindling an old flame?

[Whatitdo25]

I was recently swiping away on Hinge when I came across my ex girlfriend of 2 years on there. We broke up 9 months ago, with her ending it over some trust issues I caused. I looked through her profile just like I would any other girl, and swiped up on her prompts commenting on something. She went with the “I want someone who: ‘Will cook for me and carry me up the stairs to my apartment when I’ve had too much to drink’” which is something i did for her every time we went out clubbing/drinking together in the duration of our 2 years together (and she was a terrible cook so i took the reigns on that too lol). That was something she expressed she loved about me so much during our relationship (gentleman etc) so it was kinda nice seeing i set a standard high enough for that to be something she looks for on Hinge. Anyway, I clowned her for it and said something along the lines of “yea good luck finding someone who’s gonna do all that 😂” and she jokingly replied “no none of these mfs do it like you 😂”. So i set a coffee date with her to catch up and it went really well. Flirtatious, new vibe, and we’re both in really good headspaces, over everything, sharing stories over the last 9 months, and just generally being happier etc. I went into this with low expectations and not wanting to get back together, but damn it felt good to chop it up with her again. There was definitely a spark, longing eye contact, lots of flirting and teasing and a lingering hug to close it out. It was like a first date re-do. I want to do a second date and keep hanging with her. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

I love that the reason the vibrator was invented was because doctors were swamped and getting carpel tunnel syndrome from treating "female hysteria".
Can you imagine today telling your husband or boyfriend you have to go to the doctor to get finger blasted because he's not doing it right.

[Nikki1989]

Getting back with an ex is never a good idea.

[Truthatanycost]

Quit while you're ahead and try to figure out what void you're trying to fill that made you disregard wisdom.

[coachTanthony]

Just start over. Start fresh. No need to dip into the past. Act as if she is brand new.

[Selene1600000]

It sounds like both of you genuinely enjoyed reconnecting, and the fact that it felt natural, flirtatious, and emotionally lighter after 9 months apart is a very good sign. The important thing now is not to rush into recreating the old relationship too quickly, but to slowly see whether the issues that broke you apart have actually changed and whether the connection still works in real life over time. Go on the second date, enjoy it for what it is, stay honest about your intentions, and let this develop naturally instead of trying to force an immediate “getting back together” conversation.

[ariadneR]

Don't do it! Remember why it ended in the first place

[lorenzomichael]

You guys owe it to yourselves to see what happens. If not hit it and quit it. Then change websites...

[Anonymous]

I say go for it. You only live once. I see no cons to getting back together.

[mommymommymommy]

Don't. Never a good idea

[Iron_Man]

Call her

[In_Trance]

don't