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27F, I really have never had a relationship. I dated someone for maybe 3 months back when I was 23 & I felt like I was settling which is why I’m glad it ended. I never dated anyone after that, I’ve only met men through the dating apps bc I’m not a social person. I don’t get asked out in person other women seem to get attention so easily, I’m told I’m cute/attractive (not including female friends/family). I get attention from the dating apps, matches/msgs aren’t the issue it just never works out. I’ve always dealt with guys I’m not into liking me & the ones I like it either fizzles out or not reciprocated. After using the apps on and off over the years, I think I’m at the point where I feel I have to tell myself to be active on the apps, I’ve just kind of lost the desire haven’t been out with a guy in almost a year. I swipe on guys that liked my profile/reply to msgs every couple of days or so. Lack of sex drive may play a part but it’s not uncommon with women my age.

When we first got together there was a tie over between her and me (I never knew about this until after)

We were on a night out and we walked past her and he couldn’t stop laughing in her face almost and I said why? He said running joke.

Then the night after she messaged his friend in a rage saying how dare he did he have fun. My ex replied yeah I did. (Never knew this for months)

But him and his friends had a group chat with her name - it was in a joking way and didn’t talk about her just general conversation.

They all joked she was the only “thick” for him. And spoke about her when it came up like saying aww she would never etc. it was never in a way that was like she’s so hot etc. she’s stunning.

She uploaded a picture of her boobs with a smiley face drawn on it and it was sent to a chat and they just all laughed never said so amazing etc. they also did this with anyone else too.

But when we split he attempted to go back to everyone before me including her and his friends said she’s dumb enough to let you fuck her over again

We’re his friends and him obsessed or did I just see it that way?

He refused fo talk good about me with them. Made it out like I had nothing good etc cos he was so jealous of me. He hated I could get someone else instantly and he struggled massively. This girl was a one off then so was I. Before her he hasn’t managed to get sex for 6 months and desperately had to get her. He knew fine well I lowered what I’d go for to give him a chance.