So confused, are we friends or more?

[Anonymous]

Have been friends with a guy for 4yrs, not that close but messages every other week. He started the chase and I reciprocated. We decided to give friends with benefits a go. We slept together about 6 weeks ago, I stayed the night and we slept together again that morning. We message almost everyday including the goodnight/good morning messages. We've hung out a few times at each other's places and cooked dinners etc but no sex since the initial 2 times. I send flirty or sometimes, really direct and blunt messages saying that I want him but I don't get a reply

I thought he may be nervous to make the first move so I checked if it was cool if I did, I got a thumbs up! I just don't know if he actually wants me or not?

Is he not in to it / nervous / shy? I just don't get it, this shouldn't be complicated

[boggboss]

Its complicated because you are too scared to talk to him

[Asker]

Hmmm not sure as I am the one being open and upfront with him

[boggboss]

Neither of you are because u both are clearly not talking about it lol

[Asker]

Agreed, we need to sit down and talk

[spartan55]

friends with benefits is great isn't it? You will end up regretting agreeing to one of those.

[Anonymous]

He's not into it, or he would have been happy to reply and hook up with you.