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Am I going crazy? My girlfriend's behavior changed significantly in the last month. We are 120km apart from each other so we only meet during the weekends. During the last weeks she started going to sleep at weird times and she is 20. If she has to get up for uni at 6a. m. she goes to sleep at 8p. m. which is 10 hours of sleep and if she has to wake up later she goes to sleep at 10p. m. and wakes up every morning at 8a. m. I would understand if it was only on uni days but she goes to sleep at 8 or 10p. m. on weekends too! And everyday she takes a 2 hour nap which totals to 12 hours of sleep everyday. The thing is that when she says "she is going to sleep" she still active on Messenger for several hours. I asked her about it and she said that she isn't texting anyone because she is sleeping and that Messenger's activity status is bugged. I researched online and that is true that on some phones it is bugged so I believed her. Until she started working. Two days ago she started work at 8p. m. (the usual hour she goes to sleep) and Messeger said she was offline from until she started working to until she finished her job. She can't use her phone on the job. The situation was exactly the same yesterday. So it seems that her activity status is working pretty well. As I said this situation didn't happen before, we would text and sext late into the night even if she had to wake up for uni at 6a. m. the next day. Now the last time we did sexting was z few weeks ago and she used to love it. I understand that sometimes someone needs just a bit of space and I'm not against it but not everyday for a month. She also started ignoring me sometimes, it takes her a few minutes to respond when she is online. When we talk it seems like she is bored etc. Am I going crazy or is she cheating on me?

https://www.maxim.com/maxim-man/men-who-have-girlfriends-are-hotter-2018-1/

So after reading a few articles like this one apparently women find taken men more attractive because "When a man is chosen as potential partner by someone, it tends to mean he is “higher quality” than all the other dudes who are single. Clearly, he has some endearing qualities that appealed to his girlfriend, which makes other women around take notice and want to be with him as well."

This article quotes from a study: https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-018-19770-8 which finds that men who have girlfriends receive something called an “attractiveness boost” and are suddenly perceived as hotter than they’d normally be.

“Women in our study found men’s faces more attractive if other women had given that face high ratings. But the same goes for pictures of abstract artworks... Women appear to copy the mate preferences of other women, but this might simply be because humans have a general tendency to be influenced by the opinions of others.”

So in any case, girls have you found taken men more attractive than single men? And guys have you noticed women noticing you more when you are taken?

I gotta say that in my last relationship i definitely noticed women being friendlier with me. i don't know if thats attraction or maybe im 'safer' to talk to now? i dunno man lol. human behavior is interesting and confusing at the same time.

Keep in mind im just talking about attraction. im not talking about if you'd actually do anything about the attraction such as cheating or something. JUST attraction.

couple days ago my girlfriend was in a party and she got drunk and ended up having sex with a guy , i know that my girlfriend gets drunk so fast and when she's drunk sometimes she does things she doesn't want to do but is being drunk enough excuse for cheating?