Is there an way to fix this love triangle issue?

[Alxve]

So my girlfriend has an female friend. And that female friend of hers have an boyfriend but it seems like she today sent me an friend request on facebook and told me that "I like you" even knowing the fact that I had an girlfriend. And she said not to tell my girlfriend. My girlfriend and that girl has been in an friendship since kindergarden. Im very much surprised why would her friend try to make me cheat on her own friend? Im stuck on this complex situation. I dont know if I should tell my girlfriend about this or not. Her friend clearly told me not to tell anyone about this and keep it as an secret. Any help from you guys so that I can escape from this situation without hurting anyone?

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo dude, that's a really messed up situation. Here's what I'd do:

Don't keep this a secret from your girl. Her "friend" is dead wrong for trying to break you guys up, and secrets will only make it worse. You gotta be straight with your girl, show her the messages, and let her know nothing happened and you don't want anything to do with her friend.

At the same time, don't go blasting her friend and cause a big dramatic fight. Keep it calm between you and your girl. She deserves to know the truth, and coming from you honestly is the best way instead of her finding out later.

After that, it's up to your girl how to handle her not-so-good friend. Personally, I'd cut that snake off since real friends don't sneak behind each other's backs like that. But your girl might want to talk to her first - just be supportive of whatever she wants to do.

Main thing is show your girl she's the only one you want. Reassure her this random chick means nothing. Once your girl knows you've got her back no matter what, that fake friend won't be able to cause problems. Just be straight up from the jump - honesty is the best bet here bro!

[jahaims]

That is an easy situation. Your gfs friend obviously doesn't respect you or your girlfriend if she is willing to act that way. Tell your girlfriend so you both can cut her friend out of your life.

[Alxve]

But I dont wanna break their friendship yk.

[jahaims]

I don't know. Why would you or your girlfriend want to be friends with someone who doesn't respect either of you? That is just ignorant.