Does it sound like he’s cheating or has a secret girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

My ex recently contacted me a few weeks ago. We have been chatting but his behaviour is very weird, not like he was before. When we were together, we were around eachother all the time, he was free all the time outside of work. Since we’ve started talking again, he met me once for an hour, and said he couldn’t meet longer cause he was going swimming. He has cancelled on me twice. Now he told me he wants to do “fun” things like we first met. Everytime I’ve invited him to something, he’s made an excuse like “I am going to the gym”. I go to the gym most days and it doesn’t take my whole evening.

He also barely talks to me on the weekend. And one time when he said he wanted to see me he really stressed that he only had one hour and that he was busy at 6pm so we never met up. I find it very shady behaviour and I want to confront him but the chances are he will deny it and kick off at me for “accusing” him. Does it sound like he’s cheating? What should I do?

[RoseySarah]

Cheating on you or some one else?

Really your his back up girl now! When they break up he will want to rekindle things!

Sounds like he feels a little guilty hiding you from his new girlfriend but is not ready to have sex with you and fully cheat.

For now it's emotionally cheating having a nice time and talking without it being physical.

I'd take a selfie and post it! Make it public for every one to see!

Then the next time take one or pretend to and tell him your going to share it with every one.

Watch him flip out!

[Asker]

As in cheating on his girlfriend. He met me last week and we fooled around so if he has a girlfriend then he’s definitively cheated on her.

He’s also been extremely abusive towards me, just putting me down, being nasty for no reason. He keeps telling me to date others which is why I also think he has someone. And yet when I posted a photo of being out, his knee jerk response is to ask me if we should go our “seperate way”

[Asker]

I just wanted to ask and be 100% sure before I confronted him as I know he will flip out but again his weird behaviour isn’t my responsibility. He was also angry at me because he’s been trying to visit me when I’m working and I’ve said no. But he’s clearly got a girlfriend and is tryna get his “slice of cake” when he can hence the stressy and nasty behaviour

[RoseySarah]

Yes go your ways he is clearly hating on you!

Probably blaming you for "making him cheat" which is his choice!

I'd get him out of my life for my own health he is clearly not someone worth being with if he is abusive!

Imagine how he is with his girlfriend just as abusive!

Was he nice with you before?

[RoseySarah]

Why confront him just say you said to part ways so bye and block don't get hurt by his anger!

Here is a big hug sorry he is such an asshat

[Asker]

Exactly my thoughts! It’s his problem if he decides to cheat on someone. The whole situation is so weird. I created a dating profile since he kept telling me to date others and he screenshot it and sent it to me. I haven’t seen him on that dating app so he’s made a fake account to see if I’m on there.

Thank you. Probably best to just block because all he’s done is say nasty things to me. Even when I was being kind and invited him out to something fun he snapped and said “not feeling it”. He then went on a massive rant at saying it was awkward when I saw him etc which is all lies, if he felt awkward he wouldn’t have fooled around with me.

Thank you so much ❤️

[RoseySarah]

Your welcome sorry he is so awful! Exes usually are.

Sometimes we just need to chat and figure things out!

You will meet someone special here is a big hug 🤗

[Asker]

Also I forgot to say he was also mean when we were together. Our mental health comes first over their nastiness. Oh we sure do! That’s so kind of you. Thank you ☺️❤️

[RoseySarah]

Welcome and yeah then drop the jerk if you need rude jerk sex there is tinder!

Welcome if you want please give me a follow!

[Asker]

Thank you! Yeah, I’m back on here! I sure will do ☺️

[RoseySarah]

How long ago did you leave?

[Asker]

We split two years ago. We even lived together before we split. I just find the whole situation strange

[RoseySarah]

Thank you so much for mho

[loveslongnails]

How can he be "cheating" on you if you're not together? He's your ex, and for a reason or many good reasons. Wake up, girlfriend. That many "cancellations, I'm busy, I only have this much time, and no effort from him see you on weekends" is a neon sign. You're his option, not his priority. Stop wasting your time and don't return to lick up your own vomit, like a dog.

[jahaims]

Having a secret girlfriend would be cheating as well.

[In_Trance]

stop interacting with your ex