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A few years ago, a high school friend created a dating profile for me on a website since she wanted to see me with a boyfriend (i know, weird). Anyway, I used the profile and started chatting it up with a few men, some I even know today. One guy, in particular, liked me a lot, even though I wasn't too keen on him at first. I entertained him since I was bored, but I eventually developed feelings for him. I did break it off with him because he lived 3 hours away from me, gave off very aggressive vibes, and I started to like someone closer by. Over time, he was on my mind, and we did text each other occasionally, but it was very short convos. He even wrote many poems about how heartbroken he was that I ended that online long-distance thing with him too.

Fast forward to recently, he told me he was joining the military and wanted to pursue me again. I was interested and was thinking about him frequently while he was at boot camp. Right after he came back, we texted like usual, and everything was fine until he wanted to make a last-minute trip to see me before leaving the country. I had to decline and that changed the dynamic of the relationship a little bit. A few weeks later, he informed me that he had gotten a girl pregnant. I immediately cut contact with him since he betrayed me somewhat. Now, he's texting me frequently and calling, claiming that he loves me still and cannot die without giving "us" a chance. He knew what he did was wrong and apologized for his mistakes to the point he doesn't think about anything sexual anymore as often as he once did. Do you think it is worth it to pursue a relationship with him with all of this information or should i let him be? I don't want to waste time in a toxic relationship.

So I posted a photo of me on insta, it wasn’t sexual or anything. It’s just an “artsy” pic of me looking away from the camera, fully clothed (no skin showing whatsoever bcs I’m wearing a coat), with trees and leaves as the background. Then some guy that I know, that I have 0 history or chemistry with, commented “beautiful!”. I always reply to comments or at least give them a like, and since I don’t know him that well I just decided to “like” the comment and leave it as it is.

My boyfriend saw it and he flipped out. I understand that he might be uncomfortable with it but he started accusing me of flirting back with him, he said that I’m opening the doors to infidelity and that now he thinks that I flirt around with guys online (and offline). He started making all kinds of negative assumptions about me and even brought up my pasts (with my exes and all, which is all irrelevant…)

All I did was like a comment, I never talked to him not even in the DMs so I thought it was just a harmless comment. Is he overreacting or am I being insensitive?