Search Results: using a girl to get her friend

What does it mean when a guy uses you to piss off another girl?

I have a friend and we are very close friends, we live in the same city and we know each other from college, but we never see each other because he dropped out of college, so we started to be long distance friends or chat...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Boyfriend still talking to “other girl”?

So I haven’t been official with my boyfriend for very long but he’s number one Snapchat best friends with the girl he was with before me. To preface, I was told he liked me about 6 months ago but he never did anything...

Fyefighter

Xper 1 Age: 38

So I haven’t been official with my boyfriend for very long but he’s number one Snapchat best friends with the girl he was with before me. To preface, I was told he liked me about 6

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"I don't see you in that way", what does it really mean when the guy doesn't seem sure of him?

So, with this guy we've been flirting for like 3 weeks (its erasmus) and he skipped class to help me find my wallet, hugs me, texts me about his presentations, sends pics, and we always tease each other a lot. He also...

MairimBP

Xper 3 Age: 23

How can you get good luck with dating and relationships even if you have had more bad luck with previous relationships?

If relationships and dating are all about luck. I had more bad luck with experience with my previous relationships. Some ex boyfriends were cheaters and my last previous ex boyfriend turned out to be toxic and did blame...

SeaStorm1

Xper 5 Age: 27

Flirting

What are little things a guy can do in the DMs to make a girl feel special?

Things I can say in the DMs that will make her feel I like her and make her feel the same towards me without sounding cringe, cliché, awkward, etc. Let her know I'm interested. I'd like to be in control (not controlling)...

Jamesier

Xper 4 Age: 24

Am I on the right for getting upset at this?

First of all, I wanna apologise to you all cos I'll be kinda venting on here... That's also a venting warning so read at your own risk. So, I had met a guy online who I've never seen irl, we were talking since months and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

What's your opinion on my story?

I liked a guy my whole entire senior year in hs. I've known since forever that he's not a good guy but hey I just wanted to give it the benefit of the doubt. I involved myself with him by texting him first every single...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why is this guy secretly watching me even if he is with the girl he is currently dating?

He met her 4 weeks ago in college and they have Group assignments. I can tell that they have chemistry and that he is really attracted To her but when he thinks I’m distracted he would turn around to stare at me. He...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, what are some subtle hints you use to try a make a move on a girl?

I have known guys in the past who have been SO extremely subtle in approaching me to talk. I dont believe I look intimidating and I am overall a kind, friendly person in general. There have been guys who walk past me then...

Tephra

Yoda Age: 29

Break Up & Divorce

Did he use me? Did I do something wrong?

My ex had were dating for an about a mouth and a half. He was my first boyfriend. I loved and cared for him deeply and I thought the same was for him to me. That was until he broke up with me saying that he felt that we...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Why did my crush and his current girl want me to know that they are dating or hooking up?

My crush (we don't talk) used to have a crush on me for about a year and awkwardly tried to get my attention which I ignored because I was convinced he had a girlfriend at that time (he posted vacation pictures with a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What do you think I should do? Do I have a chance? Is he starting to like me back? What do you think based on the information I gave?

There's this guy that I like and I make it known to him that I like him. Honestly, I'm pursuing him. Contrary to the saying "make a man chase you or let him pursue you"; I go for what I want- "if you like someone, make...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Hot and cold behavior, hiding a relationship, and how to make sense of a girl who seems depressed?

A girl gave strong indications of being interested. Asked her out and she said yes. Then found out she was hiding a relationship. I was honest about my feelings for her and the confusion. Since then, its been awkward and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I got rejected, will a girl eventually say yes?

I got rejected 3 times in total this month. I have back problems, autism and no friends, i look like an average guy though. I just want a girlfriend thats all i want. I feel like never showering again and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is this dude insecure?

This guy I know always thought I wanted his ex. I thought I was crazy thinking he thought that but his friend and his ex told me he’d get mad anytime she spoke to me. He’d always glare at me and he’d spring to attention...

Anonymous

(25-29)

This have never happened to me before, any suggestions?

So long story short, i was a pretty close friend with a girl for 3 years, she's being really kind and care about the stuffs in my life, she's not the party girl type as well so really good in my opinion. We’re in the same...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Do you feel committed relationships are just a waste of time after you had your heart shit on?

The older I get the more I feel like committed relationships are just a waste of time these days , you meet someone amazing , you have great chemistry and connection , you give your heart to them , stay loyal and faithful...

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48