I just wanna rant 🥲
Me and my ex broke up 2.5 months ago and I still can’t move on. We’re in no contact now (I blocked him on everything). We were together for almost a year. I’m trying my best to get distracted but at the end of the day I would still cry and think about him.
During the relationship, I felt like he wasn’t serious about me because I never met his parents/friends nor did he ever posted on my social media. He would prioritize his friends over me too. He lied a lot (ex. his past relationship) and made so many empty promises. We would argue every week, he would apologize then do something that would make me mad again. I felt like he never cared about my feelings at all and only took advantage of me/used me since he was my first boyfriend. In the end, he cheated on me. I saw him being so touchy with another girl and that was when I broke up with him.
I’m really trying to get over him but it is so hard. I never got a sincere apology from him in person even though he live so close to me. I was so mad at him that I've insulted him so much through texts, ex. i told his friends that his d* was small. 🥲 I’m regretting that I did that cause I know it was so immature but I couldn’t control my emotions that time.
He ruined my self esteem so much and I’m really mad at the fact that it was so easy for him to hurt me. I was genuine to him throughout our relationship and I had pure intentions but I guess it wasn’t enough.
When we broke up, at first he wanted to fix it but I told him that I didn’t want to. I changed my mind a week later telling him that I wanna give him a second chance but then he changed his mind. He thought that it couldn’t be fixed and suggested taking a short break. I said no cause it’s making me feel like I’m an option. So i told him to just let me go but he kept insisting the break, and said that he didn’t wanna lose me. But, he also said that he’s not ready for a relationship and would
I feel like he’s acting like a victim now, saying that I’m disrespectful, a liar, and crazy. Making me look like I’m the one who fucked up. He stalked me on linkedin a week ago lol, which is weird.
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As far if your ex will come back, I mean maybe? But not to be in a relationship with you, even if he gives you that official title, he's still gonna cheat on you. He's still going to lie and argue with you, regardless if he let's you believe you're in a relationship with him. It seems to me at most you're going to be in a relationship with him and he's going to be single. Take a second to understand what that means. If he's going to regret it? Nope. Only thing you were to him was some pussy🤔 and I know that may hurt to know but the reason I'm telling you this is because yo ass needs to move on. He literally hasn't done anything right for you and has been a. Horrible boyfriend. Why you still want him? Fuck if I know but do not, reach back out to him. Cause all that's going to happen is you just gonna get hurt again, and while you crying he gonna be chillin with his friends or fucking some girl.
My advice on how to get over him is to just think about all the negative things about how and that relationship only. Currently you're thinking with your emotions. What ima need yo ass to do is find that logical side of you because it's there but it's being over shadowed by your emotional side but find the logical side and put that side in control. Anyway as I said. Think about only the bad things and if you ever start thinking about the good things about him or the relationship. Catch yourself and correct it. One day, maybe not tomorrow or in a week. But you'll get over him and you'll think you were stupid for wanting him back, even after all the things he did to you. But it won't work if you keep holding on to the small amount of good moments you had. Also let's not act like you were the innocent one either. I mean by far he was in the wrong but you did some bad things too. It's not an attack on you. But it's just so you're aware of your faults, grow from them. And move on. I'll leave this comment off with a question. Could you see yourself with that guy and all the bad moments and cheating for the rest of your life?🤔 are the good moments you had with him worth the bad ones?🤔
Thank you, this really helps!!! 🥲. I don’t wanna be with a guy like him at all. I feel like I’m just confused cause this is the first time I felt this. Hopefully I’ll move on before the year ends cause he’s not worth my time 😭
Just do the things I said and make sure you never see him or anything from him. You ever hear the old saying, " out of sight, out of mind"? Well so long as you don't see him, eventually you won't think about him
Breakups can be hard, mostly when the intentions are pure and you are in love with the person just hold strong with no contact, you got this, time will eventually run it's course.
Thank you! I won’t break the no contact 😆
I'm proud of you anon 😆👏
You're just more caring then he is. Good riddance to him