My crush (we don't talk) used to have a crush on me for about a year and awkwardly tried to get my attention which I ignored because I was convinced he had a girlfriend at that time (he posted vacation pictures with a girl on instagram). I'm pretty sure he liked me or was at least curious about me because his friend was staring at me and tried to ship us once.
Now he met a girl in a course he does a project with and they were very flirty, loud, smiley and enthusiastic from the very beginning. I was a bit taken aback when I saw him interacting with her so smoothly and overly flirty since he was always very shy and awkward with me and he couldn't even find the courage to talk to me.
After that every time I saw them in the lecture they didn't make eye contact, greet nor exchange words or sit next to each other so I thought there was not much happening between them. However two days ago they suddenly seemed a lot closer and he was invading her space and lingering very close next to her as if he was about to kiss her and acting all cutesy while occasionally glancing at me. I was sitting in the row behind them the whole time since the girl chose to sit directly in front of me.
I feel like they both dig each other and also want to shove it to my face. But assuming I'm right, why would they want to do that and how would she know that I used to have a crush on him?
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You might be overthinking it cuz it seems like what you're saying is he's just posting it which yes would make sense I've been posting a lot of things with my boyfriend too I don't think anyone's out to get you. Sometimes in life when you don't I guess pounce would be the terrible word to use here somebody else will Jesus Christ I could have worded that a lot better but yeah I think you understand just try to move on even though it might hurt. Unless he's directly sending this shit to you or she is they are douchebags and you don't deserve that so you should send them a picture back of you flipping off the camera
No they didn't send me anything I looked his instagram up myself and we are talking about two different girls. The girl in his instagram pictures is a girl from his friendgroup which i suspected to be his girlfriend. Turns out she wasn't or he is cheating on her with this girl from college.
My question is: Why did the girl in college sit right in front of me? I find this very odd and to me it seems like she wanted to show me that the two are dating or hooking up. And if that is the case, the question is why? She would have to know that I was interested in him or he was interested in me and she could only know that from him since I don't interact with her.
Oh okay yeah I'm like any other smooth brain and I just read the headline lol damn I would talk to whoever might be getting screwed over here and depending on however the skills I would let them know but through a fake account so that way it doesn't tie back to you you get to do the right thing and you don't get attacked by some psycho
but we don't really know if they are just normal buddies, open relationship, friends with benefits etc. I'm just wondering why this other girl wanted me to know that he was hooking up with her
Maybe it's just some weird thing like that she's like yeah I got this and you don't I hate saying that cuz it comes off as so mean but that's where my last thought is going to and it was one of my first thoughts
yeah but how would she know that i used to like him?
Yeah I don't have an answer for that that's what I'm trying to think cuz that is very weird unless she found out somehow it's very weird situation
You are under the assumptiom that BOTH of them are taking deliberate actions to flaunt their relationship... uh... don't think so. It's not all about you. Maybe he never talked to you before because he wasn't interested.
He was interested otherwise his friends wouldn’t have mentioned it
Second hand info... you should know better. Why didn't he talk to you then?
No not Second hand. I overheard their conversation about me
Maybe he didn’t talk to me because I rejected him a few years ago. He was very shy at that time and with this new girl he also wasn’t the first to initiate a conversation. She approached him
I don't understand what that has to do with you?
If you rejected him already there is very little chance he has any interest now.
Everything? He doesn’t just approach every girl he is interested in
Okay? So what? I don't get why that matters?