If relationships and dating are all about luck. I had more bad luck with experience with my previous relationships. Some ex boyfriends were cheaters and my last previous ex boyfriend turned out to be toxic and did blame the game on my trust issue with some ex friends that were girls. I was the one that did break through text and he tried to pressure into trying a relationship second go and I already moved on from him I had to use the broke up from texting unwilling to let go I'm more than one facebook account and i blocked him on my first account and then messaged me on my older facebook account and did also blocked to. I also being online dating and so far i keep getting the same type of men that are immature, playars, coky and pressure type of men that i also noicted and i had blocked these type of men. How can you get good luck with dating and relationships even if you have had more bad luck with previous relationships?
I believe luck doesn't really make a difference. If a person works on themselves with they will be able to attract a high quality partner that they vet before entering a relationship. Because there's not enough high value good people to go around, it is very competitive and not everyone gets the partner they want. As a woman, you know that women truly want their pick of about 1 in 200 men, meaning more like they want to date 1 in 2,000 men because not all of those men are compatible.
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Always think positive when you meet a nice guy your age also make sure to tell him what you are looking for in a long-term relationship keep him in line watch for positive signs from him but also look for red flags he may give you, but anything is possible nowadays.
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The point with luck is that someone You just don't get good luck. Things that are about luck are the hardest to obtain, as no matter what You do, You are unable to really change anything about whether You get them or not. In case of a really bad luck, You could remain the last decent human being on this planet and never be able to find a decent partner. Even with the number of decent people in existence being much higher, it's low enough for this luck to get very tough. I guess it's best to look outside of the big cities. People in big cities are the most consumptionist on average, and that's why big cities are the centers of depravity. Look for someone with no experience with TV and probably also limited experience with the internet (though it depends on what corners of the internet is a person looking into). If You want to meet decent people, dating apps of all kinds are the worst place to go. Dating apps are for (over) confident people, and few of those are the least bit thoughtful or philosophical. You might find some, but if we take luck more mathematically, it becomes probability, and that probability will be low in this case. Basically, the whole art of searching for good luck is about maximizing the probability of finding decent people and hoping it translates to luck. If there is no direct translation of luck to probability, we might find ourselves to be all out of good luck, but that's the worst case scenario we must be prepared for, but not really care about. If it comes true, well... we could never do anything about it, right? Thus, it requires none of our actions.
You keep going. Yes, there is some luck involved. But there are also things you can do. Learn from your mistakes and move on. To learn from your mistakes, you must first identify them.
It's easy to blame the other person. But you have no control over the other person. No matter how bad they were, you can't control it. You only have control over yourself. So in order to improve things, you have to look at yourself and figure out what you can improve.
Luck is a factor in a lot of things. It's up to you how to deal with luck, and how to put the odds in your favor. You need to admit to yourself that you are not perfect, and try to fix the things that you are doing wrong. That requires taking a hard look at yourself, and being completely honest with yourself. That is hard to do when you are in a relationship, or recently got out of one. It takes time to remove yourself from it and look back objectively.
The reason you attracting to the same type of men, is maybe because you there is something you need change within in yourself.
you don't attract what you want, you attract what you are. I believe the saying is very true, in order to get the friends, partner or anything in life, you need to make changes in your own life first.
I suggest to take time out from the dating scene, and do some self growth work, and work on yourself for while.
That is why we keep on until one day the perfect guy or gal comes along.
It's a numbers game.
The more often you try, the better your odds are at finding the one, but you need to go through a lot of first dates etc to find that someone special.You have to be positive and more careful. Look at your past relationships what didn't work and make sure you are prepared this time
It's not luck. Just be yourself and find someone who sees that you're special.
Luck doesn't exist. Luck is what people use when they don't understand statistics.
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