If you're not successful in dating what can YOU do to improve that?

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LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

Self-Reflect…

All males or females can’t be “villains”, there might be some more self-reflection needed.

What is the reason things don’t work out?

How to fix it?

and then get to the action.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Get off the Internet and stop listening to the advice of some self-proclaimed dating experts who view women as objects and are bad role models.

Miristheiss · Answer

Identify areas you need to improve and start setting goals and taking action to work on your weaknesses.

Men: be purpose driven, follow your passions, set goals, work towards achieving life goals, get degrees, get certifications, become an expert and competent at something of value or beauty. Work on being strong and fit. Get in shape, gain strength, learn to fight, take some combat sport classes. Work on your conversation skills, work on casting aside fear and regularly approach women and speak with them, flirt, express interest, ask them to get together for dates.

Women: work on being feminine and soft. Masculinity doesn't attract men. The same thing, work on being in shape and fit. Work on being easy going and chill and making eye contact and smiling at people. Work on being approachable, work on giving off the vibe (by making eye contact and smiling at the cute men around you) that you are open to people coming and speaking to you. If you want something long term and a commitment practice going slow physically. Reserving intimacy for those you are in love with and to whom you have a committed relationship with. Give away too easily some men will take advantage and just use you for sex.

mobiusforniner · Answer

Build up myself. Its impossible to love another person if you dont first love yourself. That is not to say one must be selfish. Quite the contrary. Loving yourself is to be content with your being, feeling confident enough to be unwavering but humble enough to keep learning. When you achieve AND maintain this delicate balance, you gain a sense of belonging and personal happiness which naturally extends to a desire to share it with others in a non-pretentious way. One thus becomes a leader and mentor, someone who inspires confidence and chorales others to achieve their best.

Dating comes pretty easy after that.

Billlewis · Answer

I think guys should concentrate more on knowing how to please a woman, what makes her happy, comfortable and what makes her feel sexy and desirable. To me, there's no point in trying to have any kind of relationship with a woman unless I think I have a good chance of making her happy.

ZackBan · Answer

Practice makes perfect.  Just don't be a sad sap about it.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Look yourself in the mirror, discover your flaws and work on them, but of course many men can't do that, they will blame everything on women while ignoring what are usually very obvious faults.

purplepoppy · Answer

Improving yourself is always a good start and ask yourself if you're shooting too high.  Failing that destroy your competitions reputation.

exitseven · Answer

I started asking out more girls It made the process less daunting and also the law of averages was working for me.

Sublime45 · Answer

The only way to get better is to keep trying and learn from any previous mistakes that you may have made.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

Nothing... as Dating these days MOVED ON LINE, instead of face to face

Christoff92 · Answer

Do the Michael Jackson Moondance 😏

Paul09 · Answer

I have no clue how and what to do anymore. Im not great at meeting new people period. Wish I had more charisma. Put all my points into that.

AngryCarl2 · Answer

Fix my teeth and lose some weight. It might not help but at least I'd feel better.

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

Don’t worry about it  crack a beer , hit the gym , take a nap

1sexyrobot · Answer

Lower your expectations. Hope others do the same for you.

Anonymous · Answer

Stop trying to date. You can't be rejected if you never ask.

BLP11520 · Answer

Learn how to listen and be more relaxed

Anonymous · Answer

Get rich, what else is there?

OfMiceandMen · Answer

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Anonymous · Answer

Gain confidence

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Pray

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