What can I do to make a new relationship successful, and how can I improve my dating skills?

[TheSimFans]

I got a learning disability and can be a bit shy when I go out and go places. There are some really big flags that men in previous relationships have sent, such as boyfriends who cheated or friends who did cheated in some relationships and sent mixed signals. Is lying is a red flag. I will say with some if one of these apps to read my profile first before reply or similar thing like that. A man who did message said he wanted to have babies, but later changed his mind and said his friends said so. That might be a lie. Another guy with sex everyone has a sexual relationship even learning disabilities has sexual relationship and is also was from badoo. Do you think there is a better way to get dating or not. Or these men are not good and that may be because they push boundaries I made clear on my profile dating that I am not interested in sexual relationships and I am more interested in a long-term relationship. By the way, I'll block men who text me anything regarding sex or sexual relationships before we meet up. is one of the turn offs for me what do you think that can improve my chances of dating?

[Lionman95]

I think there´s no ultimate answer to it. I like about your description that you know what you want and what not stick with that. In the modern day where porn is all over the place some guys constantly think about sex especially online. So don´t let a guy talk you into something you don´t want.

I think one big tip have patience. The modern world is full of confusion so is dating. Many guys if they are true to themselves do neither know who they want to be nor do they have clear expectations of the future with a woman.

So it might take time to find the a compatible partner. Don´t expect a guy to be 100% perfect when you meet him. I think what could help to improve is to read a book or listen to a podcast about guys and what they are interested in. Try to present yourself in an inviting way that gives a guy the impression that you´re willing to share a your life with him. Talk about your character and hobbies in your profile, what you like and don´t.

One thing I often read in your question is that you point out having a learning disability. I don´t think that´s an information to tell someone else right away because many guys can´t handle that information. Firstly they don´t know what you mean secondly they know how it might influence a relationship with you so for those guys that could be a turn off reason.

I can understand that it´s important to you and that you want a guy to know that but from an outsider´s point of view that´s something that could make you look bad if it´s an information you write in your profile. I´d rather tell him that in person because then it´s easier to understand for him.

[TheSimFans]

the promblem is i can only date men with a learning disabilities and men without a learning disabilities i can't date at all. so far nothing works still struggling to get near relationship i had no problem when i was in college but have graduation from college. by the way i watch men youtube channel about dating and most of them don't even want to date anymore or to approach women at all. i get rejected sometimes but i do have to hide from my mum since she think men are threats.

[RavVid]

I think you are doing the right thing in insisting on your standards. The issue possibly is that your standards might not be widely accepted nowadays. If most girls are willing to have sex on a first date, guys will become unwilling to wait.

To a degree everybody might lie. The guy who said he wanted babies might have been genuine and honest. Then changed his mind, after talking to his friends. If you take my point he has been honest throughout.

Also to a degree people will outwardly be what they think they need to be.

I don't think anybody has the answer. The key point is to avoid what is unacceptable to you.

Good Luck

[TheSimFans]

I thought with some men if they change their mind really quicky is made also change their made about relationship and i thought is was type lie when some get rejected. is was only one man said that.

[RavVid]

I got that it was just one man. But your example was interesting. A person says one thing for a while then, say a year later, they change their mind. Have they just been stringing you along with a lie. Or when it is more a real thing to do has it caused them to revise their view.

It is sort of a lie and not a lie at the same time.

[lachimolalalala]

I’m in the same boat! I’m gonna be checking the responses here cause I need help too lol! I’m not into the short term hook up type relationships, I want something long term. I am also waiting until marriage for my own personal reason, which holds me back even more! Everyone told me that sex is important and no man will want to wait and they’ll secretly hook up with other people to satisfy their urges. Not something I want to hear but I suppose I understand. It all feels like a dead end. Hoping you get a great and understanding partner soon!

[Berethor]

You are not interested in sexual relationship so of course boyfriend going to cheat or leave.

[TheSimFans]

that is lot of shit. reared my profile i said I'm not sure about sexual relationship if you can't see that. don't fucking reply again

[Berethor]

You want me to block you? shame, I don't like blocking virgin girls, but whatever. :)

[TheSimFans]

bye bye

[Typhon_]

look at a partner's compatibility with you, judge their behavior and personality and their alignment with your future plans, and just ask yourself "is that someone I want to be with for the rest of my life".