I have a non existent dating life and need some advice, what should I do to improve my chances?

[Anonymous]

Hi guys, I'm 25 and haven't had the easiest last few years. I'm trying my best to make a positive changes in my life this year, especially in my dating life. My dating life is absolutely terrible on non existent, I know there is a lot to improve here. I'm not a good looking guy and I'm also brown, so most women aren't very enthusiastic when I approach them

What can I do to change this, how can I stop feeling like I already missed my chance. I am grateful for all of your feedback and guidance.

[Mr_twoface]

Well, in short, I would say the following:

Firstly, and probably the most important one, focus on personal growth and SELF-confidence. This can involve working on your physical health, developing hobbies, and enhancing your self-esteem. You mentioned you were brown skinned, but thats not a bad thing. Maybe go to the gym, maybe take a class/course where you have to move to build some more muscles.

Secondly, make an effort to expand your social circle by attending events, joining clubs, or participating in activities that interest you. Meeting new people can increase your chances of finding potential dates. Go even on speed-dating events (there are plenty of these around the world) and just have a blast doing it all. You can also try online dating platforms to connect with a broader range of people. Be honest and authentic in your profile, and use recent photo enhancing you - not your body, lollipop or others. I would also say to leverage your existing social and professional networks to meet new people through mutual connections.

Thirdly, work on your communication skills, including active listening and effective conversation. Being a good listener and engaging in meaningful conversations can make you more appealing.

Fourth, understand that not every date will lead to a long-term relationship. Keep an open mind and don't get discouraged by setbacks.

Fifth, take initiative by approaching people you're interested in and asking them out. Don't be afraid of rejection; it's a natural part of dating.

Important note is to prioritize your safety when meeting new people, especially if you're using online dating platforms. Meet in public places and inform a friend or family member about your plans.

Last but not least, remember that finding the right person can take time. Be patient and persistent in your efforts, and don't settle for a relationship that doesn't meet your needs and values.

Best of luck my man! Have a blast!

[SueShe]

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and you type in your answer starting with the second paragraph and ending at the second to last paragraph, the result shows that this text is AI generated.

@Iron_Man could you report this user to GaG administrator so that they can take the necessary action. My understanding is that AI generated answers are not permitted. Thanks.

[Asker]

I'm trying my best to join more clubs and societies around me, however most women seem to be taken. I'm trying but online dating hasn't worked at all.

When I approach women, they just don't seem to be interested in me. Man it's rough out there

[Mr_twoface]

@SueShe Interesting that its shows up as AI generated. Yet, it was me all alone. Why do we now believe AI over actual human beings? And also, for argument sake lets say its AI generated, whats wrong with it? Isn't this website suppose to help others out in different cirumstances? @Iron_Man?

[Avicenna]

Rejection most of the time is completely normal- it means you're challenging yourself. Make yourself more interesting to women and keep talking to them.

[Nikki1989]

Socialize and do it often.

[Asker]

I'm trying my best to join more clubs and societies around me, however most women seem to be taken. I'm trying but online dating hasn't worked at all.

[In_Trance]

Talk to people