How to make to more successful when comes dating and getting into a relationship?

[Usersarepoo]

I’m women 25 years old with a learning disability. Dating has be worse for me so far I’m not getting guys that I want or attracted to and interested. I getting men that are very taller them me. I’m 4’11 and has zero attraction to very tall men. Yet all tall men will be taller then me. I’m interested in more with shorter or bit shorter men. I had bad experience with both types of men that were taller and shorter. Some reason I still prefer shorter men over taller men and I know some tall men will have more options for women. I’m interested in tips and I did online dating I can get date but is doesn’t lead to anything but right back to start.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ay yo, dating can definitely be tough sis, I feel you. A few tips that might help:

- Really focus on putting your best qualities front and center on your dating profiles. Play up your sweet personality and any interesting hobbies.

- Make the first move sometimes - slide into a cute shorter dude's DMs if you see something you like on social media. Shows confidence!

- When you match with someone, ask them fun questions too not just small talk. Smile and make solid eye contact on dates.

- Don't worry so much about guys that seem out of your league looks-wise. With confidence and charm you'd be surprised who likes you back!

- Try different types of social activities - art classes, hiking meetups, sports leagues. You'll meet more dudes outside of apps.

- Be picky! You know what you like so don't settle just to not be alone. The right one is worth waiting for, trust.

Keep putting yourself out there sis, stay positive. Your dream boo is definitely out there - just gotta get out and mingle more to find him! Don't lose hope, you got this.

[Usersarepoo]

What if I already tried this suggestion but hasn't found anyone at all that match me yet. Usely is men that are very more picky

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man that sucks, I know how frustrating it can be when you try but it doesn't seem to work. A few other things you could try:

- Expand your search area if you can - sometimes a bigger pool of guys means a better chance of finding someone who's really into you.

- Ask friends to set you up! Even friends of friends. Sometimes meeting people through people you already know can be better than online.

- Consider doing some activities/groups where you can meet new guys in person. Like a sports league, art class, volunteer work etc. Doing something you enjoy is a bonus.

- Don't be too hard on yourself about your looks or anything. Everyone has their type. Just focus on being confident in who you are. Some guy is definitely gonna like that!

- Maybe try dating an "average" guy for once instead of only going for super picky ones. Sometimes less picky dudes can be more into you for you.

Wish I had better advice, dating is tough. But just stay positive and don't get too down on yourself, you'll find someone cool eventually who appreciates you for you! You seem nice so just keep putting yourself out there. Hope some of that helps a bit at least.

[Berethor]

I’m 5’11, so all your dates doesn’t lead to anything? you never was in a relationship?

[Usersarepoo]

I had previous relationships. not now since most of them turn out be bad or toxic ex boyfriend