When it comes after the first date/meetup, it just fizzles out and I'm right back at square one. I've tried going to events in my town, but so far there have been a limited number of men there. Instead, I'm considering going to the city to meet more people. Aside from that, I don't know why some things seem to fizzle out. Getting attracted to many men isn't easy for me. Any red flag I see with some men turns me off. There are some men who make excuses for being too busy, talking too much, or being in more than one relationship at the same time. Men don't approach me often, but I don't want to be approached by men I don't want., I have also been approached by men and be rejected more than once. i also got a baby face to. How can I solve my dating problems?
It sounds like your problem comes down to communicating your interest.
I can give you a little perspective on this, as a fairly assertive man; timid women absolutely bore me. They are boring people to go on dates with. They don't express their interest, they don't express any of who they are as people; they give me absolutely NOTHING connect with them on. If you don't effectively communicate to me that you want me and give me something to connect with, I'm not going to take any kind of chance in pursuing you.
Why would I take the risk if I don't know whether you're receptive or not? If you were talking with someone and asked them a question, and they gave you a non-answer; would you assume that they wanted to keep talking about that thing? No. You'd probably think oh, he/she didn't answer my question. I'm going to talk about something else that they respond better to. And if they gave you enough non-answers, you would just stop talking to them altogether because you would eventually assume that they just weren't down. There is nothing more uncomfortable than forcing a conversation.
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At 24, I would not be overly concerned about that. Just because you are very selective, does not make you un-datable. Stay the course, and don't agonize over it. Relax, enjoy your young years.
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