no, i value love and in a way noone can ruin that for me. I mean whats the point and greates thing in life than love? It is out of the question to give up that
But the thing is that relationships are hard and people are different and we all have our problems and thigns change and you need to grow together and not apart. What you wrote in a way sounds like infatuation that gets lost. Typically we are infatuated up to 3 years and than that pink sunglasses come of, that you can truly see if your relationship is real and both of you are commited to making it work and love eachother dispite not having pink sunglasses on anymore meaning seeing ysf very rationally.
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ALL OF THEM, did this to you.
What the hell are you doing then lol 😂 Cause I was thinking one or two of them would be like this. But not every single one. 😆
you're doing something wrong. I don’t know if your cussing them out or throwing hands or raising your voice.
ALL OF THEM?
Maybe it’s the action. The D ain’t good. You don’t make them scream in bed. Erectile Dysfunction?
ALL OF THEM?
You’re doing something wrong at that point.
Only the ones that ended up with you getting your heart shit on. Problem is, you can never tell ahead of time if that's how one is gonna end up!
I had the best time of my life with my ex-fiance, at least for the first 4 or 5 years we were together, then things VVEEERRRYYY GRADUALLY started going bad from her end! By the end of that 10 years we were together, I discovered she'd been cheating on me at least the last 2 years we were "together"!! Had I know that's what was coming, I'd have stopped hanging out with her when she stopped fucking me after 4 years!
Nah, there are couples who stay together for years into their elderly days, and they still love each other.. Or couples that stay together til death really does do them part.. But I agree though.. People don't care about what they can do for the other person or how their actions might affect the them.
Especially in this day and age where we're basically being encouraged to be even more selfish than we already are. Where our "happiness" comes first. But I'm still young and haven't given up at all..
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@Finchie40 my dear,
1. Please write using paragraphs. Reading one text column is hardcore, especially since I'm not a native English speaker.
2. There is a rule which says that if you meet the same situation over and over, you have to change something in your behaviour and check if an output changed
3. hoping that love will solve anything is daydreaming. Love is an emotion you have to care about, the same as you care about your furry friend or your plants. And love is much more unforgiving.
But I fully understand you. I currently don't really believe in anything.For some reason, I just haven't given up on love like I may give up on other things that I didn’t always succeed in. Like i sucked at skateboarding so I just collect the decks now. But even if things go wrong with one guy, I know there's still plenty of fish in the sea so I haven't quite given up
In response to the title: Yes.
In response to the block of text... there is a key called "Enter" between "Backspace" and "Shift" over on the right side of the keyboard (assuming you use a keyboard and aren't just poking a phone like some degenerate). Use it when you take a breath.You are entirely responsible for the people you allow in your life. That goes for the person you choose to lay with or commit to. If it’s a waste of time, then it’s only a simple reflection of your state of mind, your choices, and lack of accountability when it came to your poor choices
Absolutely. I realized this 8 years ago. Haven’t had a committed relationship sense. I now am far too comfortable living alone with my cat. I just don’t know what my purpose in life other than work and give back to a society that hates me just as much as I hate women
Good people that are truly compatible for you are going to be rare so you're going to have to suffer a lot to find them. If you run into the same problem over and over, there's something about yourself you need to change. Likely your character evaluation.
No I still have faith in them. Worked well for me and maybe some of the problem is with some people getting into a relationship a bit too soon. Give things time to flourish and see how it is going before declaring it a relationship.
I think that that’s normal to think initially after heartbreak, but eventually you’ll move on to someone new and wonder how you could ever think that committed relationships are a waist of time.
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never ever had my heart shit on... I made my every relationship work, and it worked great
but, I think that yes... if I kept getting stomped I would get tired of it too The only things worth while.
Hook up culture is a diseased waste land.
I don't feel that way for me, personally. But I do believe that most people are going to struggle to have a good relationship.
Could be the people she’s around, I’ve dated girls that get so paranoid and think that I’m using them for the most trivial reasons. I think it’s ultimately a trust issue maby she’s been hurt before or frequently dates the wrong guys it’s hard to say but it’s best to address these feelings when you first spot them before she digs her heels in and decides to go with what she repeatedly fears.
It is an experience, dear. Live and learn. You'd always be wondering what it would have been like with that person. Move on and Go Slow from now on. Never a waste. Good thing to find out now than on your honeymoon. haha
Nope.
Not going to bother reading your paragraph by the way, I don't see any point in lowering my standards just because of past experiences from me or anyone else.It's only a waste of time if it doesn't work out. My relationship is still new, but if it keeps going how it's going, I will be glad it happened.
Sometimes. Especially at my age. I haven't had much success so far
People with defeatist attitudes like this should never be in a relationship. All you will do is drag the other person down to your level.
At my current age yes. I only have about 15 years left before i won't be able to do some of the thing i still want to do and im not gonna waste them for anyone
I understand what you mean. You give, give give and get nothing back. And when you ask something then your an asshole. That is why i suggest you to try dating traditional woman
Well you not wrong I've always found this quote below to be relationships in a nutshell
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