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He was away at college, that is where I knew him from. We were kinda friendly acquaintances, but generally had some low key sexual tension. He began to express more clearly that he was interested in exploring that side with me. I told him I was seeing other people bc I didn’t want him to feel played, an he said it didn’t matter to him. Since I live 30 minutes from campus he just spent the night. Yes, we hooked up and we slept in the same bed—twice except we didn’t go all the way the second time. Also had a couple head sesh’s/FaceTime/sexting. He’d call me boo & baby & send cute emojis. But 3 times he’d delete or block me and then reappear claiming his phone was messed up and you know I wouldn’t delete you boo... He graduated this term and deleted me again an I didn’t hear from him for a bit. I thought we’d had a little misunderstanding an never got to say bye so I sent a fairly long text saying I understand if he’s moving forward but was sorry I didn’t get to say bye an I enjoyed our times together an he’s the best. He sent back kind of a formalish but friendly reply thanking me for helping on his journey and being there an time together. That I was the best and he’d never forget another me that I know that. Sent back a 💞 an we didn’t talk since.

Fast forward 2 months later this girl adds me on tiktok. I accept an add her back. It’s when I start watching her videos that I discover she’s been dating this guy before last semester even started. One even showed her gushing over the texts he’d sent her like the same months we were hanging. I still wonder what made her add me to begin with but here’s the problem. Clearly I was a fling it’s fine, but I feel bad for her. Obviously he was playing both sides of it an that’s probably why he’d delete me. Should I tell her, especially since I no longer have the texts that clearly show him cheating. Or should I just let it go as him deleting me with no further contact shows he’s straightened up and being loyal now?

I'm a Christian but I've been in a sexual relationship with my boyfriend for about 10 months. For a few months, I've been having feelings of guilt after sex and it literally seems like I'm being sent messages from God to stop having sex before marriage.

I told my boyfriend about this and he said we can work on it together a week ago but yesterday, he brought it up again and said he doesn't think it'll be possible and that he'd not be able to cope. We cried on the phone for hours. He said the chances of him cheating are high and he might get frustrated if we go through with it. I appreciate his honesty and I love him very much.

He's a good man too. He kept begging me to help him; to compromise because he didn't want to loose me over something like this. He literally cried very bitterly and I almost folded but, I kept thinking that if he didn't want to loose me, he'd be willing to go on this journey with me. I told him we are allowed to fail because we're trying to stop and it's obviously not going to be easy.

I'm just really disappointed because he is a Christian like me and I didn't expect this answer but then i also totally understand because he is big on sex.

I'm really confused... If you've ever been in a situation like this, please help. If you've not please what do you think can save us?

I'm a Christian and my favorite saint is Saint Anthony (saint of miracles).. I love him and devote him so much. I always pray for his blessings.

I was going to take an important exam in my life. The night before exam, I prayed to him and on the day I prayed to him.. I prayed while driving to the exam center and even prayed in the exam waiting room.

So everyone has to do a security check before entering the exam room (to make sure you dont cheat, and the invigilator will be monitoring you).. And the invigilator on duty that day was a guy named Anthony.. I didn't notice anything at that time.. he did the security check and wished me good luck.. Even while taking the exam I was praying.. I was the first one to finish my exam and I was panicking.. It was either you failed or you passed if you finish early.. When I came out of the room.. Anthony asked me how was it.. I was so anxious.. so he calmed me and said "I think you did just fine".. I smiled and drove back home. While in the car, I got this strange feeling.." Was it really him? My saint Anthony? Was he really there for me? did I actually see him an talk to him?" .. Tons of questions ran throught my mind..

I still kept prayering and 2 days after the exam.. I found out I passed.. I was over the moon.. I wasn't like studying and preparing so much for the exam but somehow I passed.. I really think it was God's and Saint Anthony's miracle..💜