Hmmm how do women handle there partner lien for years?

[Anonymous]

How should I handle my partner lien for years about trying to hook up with my bestfriend she declined him and said NO WAY!! Behind my back they both agreed to keep this a secret from me for over 3 years until she felt horrible an had to tell me because her partner got cheating on her and now my boyfriend has apologized many times.. But he has asked me to forget it happend an to go back to the way thing used to be an start over!! I don't know I'm in shock!!

[NotTacocaT6969]

Handle?


That’s an interesting word for “dump his lying ass.”

[boggboss]

I would be dropping both people if I was u

[Asker]

I've been with this person for 14 years so it's hard to just go a leave so much invested.. I've been on a teeter totter of emotions about what I want.. if somebody can do that there's no way in hell that he hasn't done more which he has cuz I found out but it was only talking to cam girls on the internet sexually my emotions are all over the place you would think that if a man can do this what else are they capable of

[boggboss]

I never said it would be easy but both your man and your friend are shitty people

[Asker]

Yes they are they.. it all made sense when my friend was pushing away from me and I had no idea why she was crazy part is I had nightmares for years he was cheating on me with some woman her face was always blurred out but I could see his face in the dream I would wake up screaming an crying an I would tell him what my nightmare was and he would not say one word to me not even I'm sorry you're having nightmares or it will be okay I get no emotion from this man my uncle passed away from colon cancer in September this guy didn't even hug me and tell me I was going to be okay I got a lot of things to think about considering I have children with this person

[boggboss]

It sounds like u had more more problems going on with him to start with to be honest and seems u stay out of convince over anything else like honestly when was the last time u was truly happy with him not a happy moment but felt happy u was with him

[Asker]

Everything was great and I was so happy until my friend told me what he asked her there's more to the story it's just a long one I'm just confused to why she waited 3 years to tell me that he asked her to hook up and then she text him and said were you serious about what you asked me and he continues to text and say Yes I want to continue to hook up behind her back I seen these messages she told him no that is my best friend you were wrong you'll never find a person like her and if I was you I would never ever do something like this again if you do not want to be with her just break up with her if you want to be sleeping with other people but I should have knew better when I was having nightmares for years that he was cheating and the nightmare stopped after I found out what he did.. I'm a Taurus I'm very stubborn and when I found out all these things out I did not talk to him for 2 weeks straight if I did it was about our children and what they needed

[boggboss]

Hoe can u say u was happy before when u stated u never felt u got emotion from him or comfort when your uncle died

[Asker]

Naw I was hit with all this bs the same week my uncle was in hospice dying an not even 24 hours later I was told 😒

[boggboss]

Wow pretty shitty

[Asker]

Yes it is I've only been in two serious relationships and one that was six years and the one I'm in now which is 14 years I'm just looking for some advice cuz I have no brothers and the person I was with for 6 years I was with was physically and mentally abusive I never dealt with any cheating type scenarios would that person so I just had to ask I hopefully get some opinions I'm just more confused because I'm the type of person that will break up and not cheat.. we're only human of course we're all going to fantasize and say someone's good looking but when someone starts to wander I start to question myself self-worth which is the most stupidest thing that us women were given.. as a woman certain things like that will make us insecure of our bodies and who we are in general.. sometimes I wish I was a man LOL😂🙃😉🤣

[boggboss]

Being a man don't make it easier women cheat also and the same insecurities arise its clear he never respected u if he not only asked but she texted him and he would have still gone through with it

[Asker]

True.. ya he definitely didn't respect me what so ever im not sure if he even does respect me now.. I told him he makes me feel like a BTN ( Better than nothing) to him!!

[boggboss]

What did he say when u told him u know he tried to cheat

[KrakenAttackin]

Work harder to keep his attention.

[OddBeMe]

Lien like a loan? Or do you mean lying?