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well the love of my life i met him a few weeks ago, on December, we said we're with each other only, but i had sex with a guy this week, and i don't if ill tell him today that ill see him, we both told each other that we're falling in love of each other. but well i wanna keep seeing the guy i was with before him, and i told him about him, the previous guy told me he wasn't that into me and that he didn't like talking to someone everyday, and i told him i didn't want to be friends with benefits with him, and now i do want to because, this new guy im in love with can only see me on fridays and weekends, and that's too little for me, he says i won't be always, it just he's got more work because it's summer, but still, i wanna keep seeing the other guy, plus the other guy is generous with drugs, and my new guy doesn't care about inviting me that, and i have so much fun with mdma, i buy that and i like to be invited to have sex and do mdma and i also invite mdma but my new guy doesn't even do that, he doesn't like mdma, he likes cocaine and i dont do that. well there is also another guy i wanna keep seeing, he was my dance teacher and i dont want something serious with him too, i just like having fun with him , these two guys are so fun , i like having sex with em and do drugs with em, during the days im not with my love of my life, also, I've been on relationships all the time, im kinda tired of that, i didn't want this love of my life to come now but he did and well i wanna do things right but i hate that i could never really enjoy my singleness...

what do you think? should i tell him all this?

I met a guy online who told me he stayed on dating sites for 3 years. He told me he never had sex with anyone except for one girl three years ago. He travelled all the way to my city for four hours just to meet me.

When I first met him, I did pull away, but then he tried to prove that not all men are the same. He didn't force me to have sex with him. But then he told me something that somehow scared me—he doesn't want to commit. I did not bother to think about it and just had a good time with him. We shared a lot of talks, fun, and walks. We were both happy and just sending out positive vibes until we had sex together.

After the two days we spent together, he said he had to leave me to visit his friend "girl" in another city, which is 30 minutes away. I was curious about it, but he said she is just a family friend, and they have been friends for many years and are very close. Her family is already his family. He stayed there for three days, and I did not bother to overthink it.

We still communicated together right after he left, and we have been calling and texting each other for three weeks now, getting to know each other better. He eventually told me that he wanted to get serious about me; he sent a lot of kiss and hug emoticons. We become more comfortable with each other.

Now, he told me he wants to drop by to see me in the city next week. I asked him, "Where are you going?" He said to his friend, "Girl," again for two days, but his ultimate goal is to meet me.

I felt uncomfortable and scared if he was telling the truth, and I somehow doubted that this girl could be his girlfriend or fling. I pulled away again from him, even if it did hurt me a lot, and said I needed space.

Now my question is, do I need advice on whether I shouldn't be jealous of this friend's "girl" OR should I be suspicious and cautious of this guy?