Gonna keep as brief as possible:
Been with boyfriend for over 4 years - very happy and living together with our cat.
He likes a drink with friends - I'm more introverted - that's fine - happy for him to go and socialise.
I don't want to text him whilst he's having fun, but if it's gonna be a late one, I like him to let me know - and if staying at his mates, more security wise so can lock the door.
Not heard from him at all today - went out 6.30pm to mate's down road and local pub - now almost 4am and nothing.
Phone dead, no calls or texts answered or picked up/read.
Added to this I think I may have been having an early miscarriage tonight so am in pain/bleeding unexpectedly and just desperate to hear his voice - too much pain to go down road and bang on his mate's door.
Is this unreasonable behaviour? I do get anxious and panic - spiral with my thoughts and I can feel this happening as I'm not sure if I may need to go to A&E for the pain and I need him.
Am I right to be angry about no text just letting me know what's going on?
if you don't know if you should call your boyfriend when you're having a miscarriage, its a sign that something is not right in your relationship. You don't think you're important enough to disturb his night out with the boys. Don't have a baby with him. the relationship eventually won't work out in the future.
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I would call the friends he went drinking with or the bar itself.
I'd forget about him for now and get yourself sorted. Do you have anyone else to reach out to? Otherwise get yourself to a hospital if you need to.
Why u want to disturb him when he's hanging with the boys?
You have no right to be angry
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