Guys, why would you wanna change a woman who you date?

[Anonymous]

Like he is saying stuff; "Go out more", "move more",.. just be active and do as much as he does.

Even tho you had just fun with him. Then after that it went to only chatting and yet we aren't friends, and he still keeps talking about what I need to do more..

Is that okay when he wants you to change? Would you?
Even if you are content

[exitseven]

Everyone does this. They start dating somebody and they are perfect except for ___________. They try to change them but it usually does not work, I think that it is really hard to find just the right person and maybe people are willing to settle nd make the best with what the have.

[Asker]

Its just so weird to me. I've never experienced that with my friends.
I won't ask anyone to change, just to live comfortable together and accept each other for who they are

[exitseven]

There are some things I would find unacceptable in a partner.

[Guy13]

Everyone changes and gives and takes if we value the other person. It is a two-way street.

[Asker]

True but you don't need to tell them all the time right? Especially when you haven't some kind of relationship with them, I think

[Guy13]

That's right... we just do it and ebb and flow. There is no Scorecard kept.