Search Results: overthinking

Do you guys think I could possibly be missing some red flags? or am I overthinking?

I have been talking to/getting to know this guy for about a month now. He has been a gentleman, very patient. Our conversations have been just the two of us getting to know one another emotionally. Seeing where we connect...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How can someone get past overthinking?

Overthinking has literally lead me to lose out on opportunities on woman I know fancy me. I wait too long and they get angry and essentially befriend me. I really don’t understand how I can get over this, not only...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What does it mean if my crush said he's better looking than me?

So a mutual friend of me and my crush one day said that she doesn't know who's hotter, me or him. While me and my crush were in the room. My crush then said "It's me, definitely. I'm hotter." Does this mean he doesn't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Worried that the guy I’m seeing will eventually be bored of me because I’m not business minded like he is?

I (29F) currently work as a senior consultant for a federal consulting firm. I will say I am doing well for myself and I recently got promoted the guy (33M) I’m seeing works in the tech field, and he makes great money....

almondeyes24

Xper 1 Age: 33

Girl's Behavior

How to overcome being anxious and overthinking when talking to girls?

for context I’m always worrying what to say or worry that i be ignored

Anonymous

(18-24)

Am I being ghosted? Did he lose interest?

I (30F) met this guy (34M) a month ago on Raya. We’ve been virtually getting to know each other because he lives in Indianapolis and I live in Atlanta, but it’s been great. So great that he booked a flight to come see me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Should I attempt to ask her out again?

I’ve been hooking up & texting this girl from work for about a month now. I’m 34 and she’s 23, so there’s a bit of an age gap between us. That being said, she went out of her way to get my attention for about 2-3 months....

mesothelioma89

Xper 1 Age: 36

My boyfriend spends a lot of time with another girl?

I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months. I was with him before he went to uni and met any of his friends. We are both at the same uni together in different years and so we have different friendship groups. My...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girls, Am I doing The Right Thing?

Recently in about 2 months ago me and a friend started flirting in a group chat we're in together and I decided to take in a step further and meet in person. I known her about 5 months. I didn't want to put too much...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, No idea what to do about my crush, pretty sure I screwed up?

kinda writing this just to get it off my chest. There’s a girl, (obviously) that I have a massive crush on. We’re both in college and share classes together. At first, I thought she was into me. I made her laugh every...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He asked me to emotionally/mentally support him alhough he has a girlfriend? Am I just overthinking? Why would a guy ask a random girl for help?

We aren't even close and he usually seems like a collected chill guy. He was in a stressful situation work related and asked me to help him.

Anonymous

(25-29)

20s men and women, early 30s, if still a virgin or not, how have you often scripted or desired your first time/s to be like?

After all, it's like guessing or daydreaming your own play, your own script. How overthinking or how perfectionist or spontaneous losing virginity in the 20s or 30s can be. The funny things and cooler things are *it's not...

itsclearlynicholas

Xper 7 Age: 32

After all, it's like guessing or daydreaming your own play, your own script. How overthinking or how perfectionist or spontaneous losing virginity in the 20s or 30s can be. The funny

Select gender and age to cast your vote:

What kills most relationships?

Overthinking

MsProsperity

Xper 5 Age: 21

Would this be okay, thoughts?

My boyfriends kid is turning 11 soon and he wants to get him clothes and electronics. I asked him what kind of electronic he mentioned a tablet. I am thinking of telling him I’ll go half with him and that way it can be a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does this mean?

So I’m a very shy girl in college and I am starting to step out of my comfort zone to socialize. I work at the front desk at my college as a student assistant and this cute guy caught my attention because he looks chill,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

Why do some ghosters gaslight you when you ask them what’s wrong?

I had a best friend of over 10 years who suddenly started to fade out of my life. When I noticed her being too “busy” to see me, I asked her if I did anything to hurt her and she said everything was fine she just has a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Boyfriend becomes too realistic sometimes and I don’t know what to make of it?

My boyfriend (21) and I (20) have been together for little over 3 months, he tends to get too realistic sometimes. He’s had a rough past with girls and takes time with opening up and everything. His current circumstances...

confusedtea

Xper 4 Age: 22

Am I forcing something to happened?

I’ve met this guy at church. He’s really sweet and generous. We’ve became friends after we’ve met and I feel like maybe it might lead to something more. I find that I’ve been overthinking everything with him, feeling like...

s_lynn22

Xper 4 Age: 24