20s men and women, early 30s, if still a virgin or not, how have you often scripted or desired your first time/s to be like?

[itsclearlynicholas]

After all, it's like guessing or daydreaming your own play, your own script. How overthinking or how perfectionist or spontaneous losing virginity in the 20s or 30s can be. The funny things and cooler things are *it's not as awkward as those who lost it earlier, as now I live in my own house or I even rent my own apartment or I even own my own car" in other words, being 20s/30s losing virginity, ain't like sneaking around and having broke and no assets. Aka can't afford dates, still in college/university and not even a dorm room to bring a hot date or hot partner back to lol for some... television. Lol.

I've daydreamed perfectionist details

I do have a very clear picture of how I'd like it

It's not gonna happen possibly, yet yes I do have preferences

Hell I'd just be spontaneous lol

Pump and dump "was it good for you as was for me" lol - now leave

Other / results please

[NathanDavis]

I never ever planned or thought of a first time like that...

the first time just happened, not because of NO reason, but completely unexpected, for me anyway...

she sure had it mind for some time

[itsclearlynicholas]

If that's the case, was she very director-like "aka, was she particular about setting, movements," as I often feel like I'd be like a director insisting with my girlfriend or friends with benefits woman "this is how I've always expected it to happen, bed here, this here, that over there, drop the clothes here, x lol 😂😆

[itsclearlynicholas]

Position like that 😅😉 with some input sure and consideration variation for the others input lol 😆

[itsclearlynicholas]

Maybe I'm just an artist 🧐 🎭🎨 who has in his mind perfectionism "lol my first time was hell" I never wanna be that guy. I never became either anyhow lol at 30 lol - I don't mind

[itsclearlynicholas]

Or any of my times was hell - I never want to be that guy lol 😆😆😆