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OK so originally this was supposed to be girls only but i messed up and put it for guys only so there is two now anyways to the point. there is this girl whenever i walk in the room she immediately puts down her head and looks at me through her arms when she thinks I dont notice additionally she dosent talk to her Friends the entire class. am I making her upset? I really do not want her to feel upset or mad or anything when she is around me or lose time with her friends but its so hard to tell and while I would ask her I tend to say something random every time i see her and run off thankfully they have a meaning with what im doing at the moment but still its really embarrassing for me to feel like im just running my mouth like a complete fool anyways long story short how do I find out why she is doing this and is she mad at me or am I just worrying for no reason whatsoever.

before any of you jump the gun and claim that I'm a victim blamer I like to point out that I'm well aware that rape is a very traumatic experience. I myself am no stranger when it comes to trauma so I should know that like any other victims of trauma people who were unfortunate to endure rape often times do not want to REMEMBER such experience. so they...

- Dont want to think about it

- Avoid hearing anything that relates to it

- (most importantly) dont want to TALK about it

it might also explain why so many rape victims dont bother to report their incident. so with all that said I now have a 6th sense and that is to never believe women who I just met or dont know personally when they say they were victims of rape. to me if a woman does not hesistate to scream that "she was raped" from the top of a mountain without feeling any sort of trauma, anxiety, or shame then is obvious to me that she is lying or orchastrated the incident in her head.

she is most likely trying to avoid accountability by claiming that she was forced into it or simply trying to use this as a way to gaslight you once you start to feel the false sympathy for her that she wants you to feel.

till then this tweet explains it better than I do. I should also know cause a girl who I almost dated was a prime example of this. she claimed her ex raped her the night she lost her virginity but then her story started to sound like horseshit to me when we cut each other lose and she would shame me for being a virgin while she was not; like who the fuck would be happy to lose their virginity via rape?

The mistakes you shouldn't make either in a relationship or in marriage.

(Don't be fooled, learn the 10 cheat codes)

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1. Thinking that her guy bestie hasn't or can't fvcked her. pic.twitter.com/Ga39Ms2UkR

— 𝐌𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐨𝐫 𝐌𝐚𝐬𝐜𝐮𝐥𝐮𝐬 (@mentormqsculus) November 10, 2024

After all, the state of current affairs would then be under the Trump Presidency or in my mind my logic goes "people dont want to hear blame about yesterday, they want to know who to blame today" - you know how politicians always blame the previous incumbents for things that happen after they've left office or incumbency lol 😆 ah well. I for one am enjoying as a leftie these remaining months of the Biden Administration, I for one was sad the Democrats lost. Sigh 😔😭 I'm not American.

Note: I'm really curious about what the youngsters here will say in this scenario, as we, elders, already knew the pre internet era, its easier for us to imagine.

Now here is what will happen, briefly, dont read if you want to imagine the consequences yourself, spoilers:

Your desktop is now an offline station
Your smartphone becomes dumbphone again!

no more wikipedia, there's a library
no more social medias, silence!
no more wetflix, buy DVDs
no more gps, paper maps
no more online shopping, move your butt
no more uber, go to the restaurant
no more online dating, sorry introverts
no more MMOs, play solo
no more Hub, erotic magazines ew
no more...

Why this situation you ask? Maybe because resources would not anymore be as abundant as they were, maybe because heating up all those servers and scripts and AIs 24/7... you know, that's a hell of a lot of energy for such trivial uses! For the sake of pseudo-realism, let's say that a part of the world still operates with internet, maybe banks and govs? But not you, not the general public ! You are back to pre-internet, the 1980's, but better haircuts, and goth crocs !