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Okay... so I was on an online forum, presumably a pretty toxic one, and the topic at hand was whether it was "okay" or not for "fat" women to wear revealing clothing or show skin. And one of the people attached the photo of the woman above, saying something like: "Do you REALLY wanna see elephants like this wearing such skimpy outfits such as this? How can a woman who looks like THAT leave the house dressed like that and feel absolutely no shame?"

And I was just like... WHAT? Is that literally not just an average or normal body type? She definitely isn't super skinny, but she most definitely doesn't look "fat" to me either. She does have somewhat of a belly, but then again, so do a lot of people. I wouldn't even consider it a bad thing, just some extra softness. Her belly definitely doesn't look excessive to me either.

Honestly, I'd refer to her as "curvy." She has big boobs and relatively wide hips, only her waist is a normal size instead of super thin. Which makes sense. Usually curvier women won't be super skinny.

Also... my own body type is quite a bit "fatter" compared to hers, so if she's "fat" what does that make me... lol...

I'll also get this out there, I'm bisexual and her body type is honestly kind of ideal to me. She's in pretty good shape overall, yet looks like someone who can enjoy pasta and beer and just chill. She isn't supermodel attractive or anything, but I like more average looking girls since they're more welcoming and relatable to me. I find the supermodel types too intimidating/unapproachable anyway, lol.

We were together and he was cheating. During that time I made a face at him and he said you’re so ugly and couldn’t stop laughing.

He is a narcissist and that’s something they do they completely disregard the current partner and make them seem less than trash in order to move on.

His own friends said the girl he cheated with was not better than me. Everyone agreed. Strangers on this etc.

We actually did have similar bodies. She was taller. And smaller boobs and smaller bum. But same dress size. I just had a much bigger bum and possibly a cup size bigger. But same size all over waist etc. arms.

She did have longer thicker hair. But other than that no one could say she was better in any way.

He even tried to defend it saying we were about the same. I wasn’t better and she wasn’t better.
Which definitely wasn’t true. He tried to say she just photographed really badly. But friends who seen her in person even said to him it’s not true she’s not better than me. He said I photo ugly too (never quite like how she did everyone has bad photos). And tried to say no you’re the same and claimed there was no difference between us.

She did look like his mum so maybe that creepy mummy issues thing going on?

I'm asking pretty much 3 questions at the same time but I really am lost.

I've ordered 3 sports bras from ASOS. I plan on returning the third one because it's too small even though they're all size S (36-38).

The other 2 look like they fit me (no obnoxious spillage anywhere), but the bras do feel tight. So I wonder, should I size up if these bras fit me but at the same time feel tighter? How should a proper working sports bra fit? I have bigger boobs so they're squished to my chest but as I said, they don't really spill out.

It's really a pain to get them off though.

I worry that size M (40-42) will be too big for me, 42 is definitely too big. I'm like 38-40 in chest size.

Does a sports bra loosen up or not? Is a slightly looser bra better than a tighter one?

I do plan on losing weight anyway...