Boyfriend has made me insecure about my boobs, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

I haven’t always liked my boobs (36DD) my boyfriend always seemed like he loved them, but i’ve noticed in the last few weeks he has said certain things about them. I was wearing a white t shirt (no bra) and he was like damn ones lower than the other (talking about my nipples) i kinda walked away and let it slide. Then tonight my friends and i were having a conversation about boobs and one of my friends asked like joking “i must have pretty nice ones ay” and my boyfriend literally in front of everyone said “one’s lower than the other but yeah they’re fine” like my heart sank… i know my boobs are big and it took me years to kind of be okay with them but yet he says things like that…. i’ve been quiet ever since and he keeps asking me what’s wrong but i don’t wanna talk about it…

[ohsheeT]

You need to talk about it you need to talk about it right now you need to get it off your chest seriously it's not that big of a deal tell him how you feel he'll accept it he'll understand it and if he loves you he's not going to argue with you he's going to say I'm sorry and he's going to give you a big hug

And please remember this your boobs do not make you who you are it's who you are on the inside that makes you who you are so stand up for yourself be strong get it off your chest and tell him how you feel about it you don't have to yell scream or anything like that just say hey you hurt my feelings and don't talk to people about my boobs and in front of anybody please their mind they're yours nobody else's business

[TheSpaceGnome]

That kind of rudeness is cringey af.
Dump his ass.

Also no one is perfectly symmetrical. There have been a few photography experiments done regarding this, where photos of people (mostly faces) were edited to be symmetrical to the right side, and the left side, and both were compared to the actual person. The symmetrical ones looked really weird.

Here are 2 examples:

For some reason, original is spelled wrong.

[Anemone978]

Guys are like that with big tits.. they are all over them in the beginning but then I think they get used to them and they ain't so hot and sexy anymore they just become mid..
Don't be insecure just tell him that he is hurting you by talking about your boobs like that.. if he keeps doing it start pointing out his flaws and see how he likes it...

[Nikki1989]

The average bra size in the United States is 34DD, so you have nothing to worry about here.

[madhatters4]

it sounds like you have a douche on your hands. you need to tell him that what he said is inappropriate and makes you feel insecure. he shouldn't be talking to you or about you like that. he should be able to have consideration for your feelings. if he can't do those two things then he shouldn't be your boyfriend

[Mangospacho]

So, I can relate because my now wife has huge boobs and, years ago before we were even married, we were in a conversation with friends and someone commented on how big they were and I was proud because she was with me. I can’t imagine making a rude comment about how one is lower than the other. Maybe breaking up with him will teach him a lesson.

[magiusX26]

is he in the wrong for saying that, yes. are you in the wrong for not communicating what his saying that does, also yes. though i say this with empathy, instead of talking to comete strangers online, try to talk to your guy instead. really this should only have been a private conversation between the two of you. coming online gives "validate my feelings/opinion" for attention vibes.

[Christoff92]

First if all shouldn't let his words get to you. If he keeps up this embarrassing also insulting kinda talk with you. The talk with him about his moods and tell him honestly to stop.

Just move on and break up with him if he doesn't. That's how he would learn.

[slatyb]

"he was like damn ones lower than the other" That's either nasty or stupid. Repeating it to others -- purely nasty. Do you really want to stay with this man? He's rather immature.

[BoopBoopBeep]

First off, nobody made you feel anything. You chose to. Second, if you can't communicate with him there's no reason to be with him.

[Unit1]

this is why we love to think about nothing in our nothing box. Oversharing things like this makes a mountain out of a bump.

[Anonymous]

Leave him for god's sake

Any guy who gives so much priority to boobs never deserves women

[clampfan101]

I’m sure they’re fine and he’s just not being as respectful as he should be.

[azgınteke]

very nice size i love these sizes...