My boyfriend ex has huge boobs while I have a medium size. Sometimes Im really insecure about it?

[Anonymous]

So all of his ex-es have a big chest (boobs) but I have like. A B cup and thats makes me insecure. He is a really gorgeous human and Im feeling like I am not enough for him because I am not such a beauty (even if he tells me that I am everyday without me asking for it). I am not perfect. I dont have that many curves and Im kinda skinny. Its just that everytime we talked about ex-es (and we dont talk that much about them ) he says " At least she had big boobs". And Im feeling Like I compare myself to them.

[lostgirl_searching]

He's with you, if he really cared about a girl having big boobs he would have chose another girl with boobs.
Plus your size is fine. I have big boobs and I wish mines were small because then I won't think every guy who likes me, I will assume it's because of my boobs being huge. Nothing fun or special about that. Plus bras are expensive I have to spend almost $100 because mines needs to be tailored a certain, plus you will have pains especially in the back. You can't wear your exact same size for shirts if you don't want anyone to know how big your boobs are. It's a real headache.
So don't feel insecure.

[EmmaMary]

@lostgirl_searching Oh do I feel your pain and suffering, I'm a 34KK and like you I have to have the majority of my bras custom made, at some incredible extortionate price.

[lostgirl_searching]

@EmmaMary right? It really sucks. Even if I go to a boutique store that even might have my size. Even they don't sell M cup size. So they tell me I will have to get speciality tailored.

[EmmaMary]

@lostgirl_searching OMG. you're a M cup! I thought my size was totally absurd, but you, you poor thing beats me hands down, or should be cup sizes up.
May I be so nosey as to ask what your band size is please.

[lostgirl_searching]

@EmmaMary Honestly it's sizes bigger. I was told it can go up to a Z.
36M

[lostgirl_searching]

But that is considered to big so normally a 32 is a better fit for me.

[EmmaMary]

@lostgirl_searching Gosh, let me get this right, you have actually been told you could eventually be a Z cup?
And as for being a 32M, my heart well and truly goes out to you. x

[lostgirl_searching]

@EmmaMary if it continues to grow. But with me losing weight. It won't. But my size won't get smaller because it's hereditary on my dad mother side of the family. Which is a major concern. So the doctor told me to not lose to much weight.

[lostgirl_searching]

And thank you

[EmmaMary]

@lostgirl_searching So dare I ask, are they still actually growing now, and if so is it very noticeable and over what period of time?
Both my two older sisters are extremely well endowed as well, but we all take this from both our mother and grandmother.
You are sweetheart, very welcome indeed. x

[lostgirl_searching]

@EmmaMary this was last year when I became a Mcup so it looks like everything is still the same. I honestly didn't know it grew until I noticed the brand new bra didn't support me at all. So my mom measured me and that's how we found out.
My sister is a triple D but hers stop growing a long while ago. So I guess she didn't have the gene like I do.

[EmmaMary]

@lostgirl_searching Words simply can't express the sorrow that I feel for you.
Have you ever considered having a BR?
I have many times, but I'm not keen on having it done until after I've had children (hopefully) and have finished breastfeeding.

[lostgirl_searching]

@EmmaMary Sadly I can't I have heart problems. So it will be extremely risky that isn't worth risking my life over. So I'm basically stuck with them.

[EmmaMary]

@lostgirl_searching Oh my Lord, things certainly have never been in your favour, I'm just so, so sorry for you, I really am. <3 xxx

[lostgirl_searching]

@EmmaMary thank you and it's okay❤ I have had a lot things worse. But I guess it's something we all go through at times. I just wish that if I have a daughter. I hope she skips my gene and have regular size like my sister or maybe smaller.

[lynnj88]

You do not want to have Big Boobs.

First it's hard to find a nice bra that doesn't look like something your grandmother would wear.

2. Anything over DDD you bra will be expensive. A good bra will cost you around 50 to 60 dollars.

3. 70 to 80 percent of the time you will need to buy your bra online because most stores do not carry anything over a 40 DDD

4. Most bras only come in 3 colors: black, white, or tan

5. Big Boobs usually causes back issues in the future.

Embrace your B cup and don't feel insecure about them.

[Jmcmanning]

Dont' ever compare youself to another woman. He's with you now, not her.

I know my boyfriend likes bigger boobs, one day at the beach I old him I was never going to have boob surgery because I like them as they are and if any guy I date doesn't like it, he can go find someone else.

Always be confident in what you have and it will show.

[Xasildo]

Boobs don't make a person. If your boyfriend would think higher of someone else for their physical features then maybe he ain't that great. But I think what your boyfriend meant was he didn't really like his relationship with his exes and the only good things he remembers from it are their phsycial appearance.
I would venture and say he thinks you're beautiful and loves you for more than your body. He probably enjoys his time with you and there's something special about you that attracts him to you.

[Weapon77]

Oh gosh girl. The fact that they had big boobs and he is not dating them any more proves he does not care about big tits that much. I mean they are nice, but that vast majority of guys just like boobs. Personally I am fine with B or C. D or bigger is actually more trouble than I want. I mean they might be fun for awhile, but the fun fades. The fun of B cups never ends. Besides, personality and intelligence are more important to guys than you might think.

[Asker]

Thank you for you answer :)

[Weapon77]

No problem!

[sugarchateau]

Well said!

[Weapon77]

@sugarchateau I try!

[jakeforfun]

It can be tough, but I think you should talk to him about your concerns. Heck, see if he has any interest in you getting augmentation. See how he reacts. If you get ANY inkling that he'd be onboard with that - dump him - he doesn't have proper feelings/care for you. If he says something like "well, you're fine, but if you really want to, for yourself, then I support you" - dump him, girl. If he says something like "you don't need to change a thing about your body. Please don't" - he's a keeper. Any man who devalues a person because of breast size, is a creep. You should find out for sure, and go from there.

[ciitruskiwi]

Stop comparing yourself to others. If you don't then you will never be happy. And if he wanted a girl with big boobs he would have dated one again but he chose to date you. He obviously finds you beautiful regardless of boob size.

By the way no one is perfect.

[ThePragmaticRomantic]

You dont need to worry.
"At least..." Implying thats the ONLY thing she had going for her.
That means you're winning on everything else.

As for boobs. Once you've experience some large knockers you learn to appreciate the little ones all the more. They dont sag as much and they can be just as fun and sexy.

[Michael-James]

Well, think of it like this. He broke up with all of those girls and is with you.

From what it sounds like, big boobs were their only redeeming features. You must be much better than them in ways he cares about more, thus he doesn't care about the size.

[cherryphi82]

"At least she had big boobs" And that's supposed to be a compliment? Don't you see the objectification in this? I really don't understand you small boobed girls. You have absolutely no place for insecurities. You can find beautiful, fitting bras and clothes galore. Everything is geared toward you. So please stop making your insecurities front and center.

[wobbufett7]

So because you dont have big tits, you feel like your not worth his love reallly. ... over tits... lol by the time you're my age those things gonna sag lol.

Insecurity is. Huge turnoff. Stop comparing yourself to others, or get a new boyfriend.

If you can't love yourself how can you love another?

[Asker]

Thank you. You are right :)

[JustSherri]

You should love your body. Me being a size 40 d cup is quite heavy for my petite size. I sort of wish I had smaller boobs once again. It's true we suffer from back pain and sometimes it's no fun. Love yourself. You gotta think you are enough. A true man who loves you will see that.

[funguy90]

You have to remember that he is with you now and not his ex. She's his ex for a reason. So clearly he likes you more, and probably doesn't care about what size boobs she had or you have. He's just happy to be with you.

[Radec052019]

Honestly show more than just your chest, your personality, your skills, and your knowledge cause obviously he left them for some reason and took you so don't worry about them worry about you and him

[Asker]

I know that. Its just me the problem. I want to be at my best for him. And that's all. And I would like to learn to apreciate myself more.

[Radec052019]

Just don't worry about them like I said it will just push you to your limits to the point you go too far so just be yourself and enjoy this guy while you can for possibly a long time

[Browneye57]

It's just not about your tits honey. He's far more interested in your level of desire and attraction to him.
And quit comparing yourself to ANYONE, ever. It serves no purpose. Just be the very best YOU that YOU can be.

[AquaBoo]

If he's with you, then you have nothing to worry about.

[Surely]

Apparently since his ex-es had big boobs, the boobs didn't mean that much to him since he gave them up. And maybe the boobs were the only thing about them that he was attracted to. Which means there is something else that attracts him to you. Like maybe a brain.. Don't undersell yourself.

[abc3643]

Your B cups are fine...
More than a handful is wasted and youbhace a handful.

(Besides B is the REAL natural average.)

[TotallyNotJosh]

Ever thought of it the other way like it's kind of a subtle complement, even though you lack something he likes he loves you more than them. Shows he's not just here to smash but he truly likes all of you

[JacoH]

Well that's a sucky thing for him to do!
Many guys prefer medium sized breasts. I do. And there's a whole lot more thjngs that are important to guys about a girl than jusy boobs.
Holding his ex's things over you isn't really a very good thing to do.

[MusicMayhem]

So work on having an awesome personality so you won't put so much emphasis on your looks. Seriously girls worry waaaay too much on their looks, guys want more than that. A girl obsessed with her looks is a massive turnoff.

[wankiam]

if he is saying that kind of thing to you then tell him to fuck off back to her while you find someone who finds you truly attractive and knows how to show respect

[laaaate]

Don't worry about it. Mist guys care about was more than boobs, just do squats lmao

[laaaate]

Most, Ass*

[BlueDream]

He's a douchebag for bringing up her tits every time, that's unneeded. Say the same thing about your ex but talk about his cock, see how he likes it.

[jakeforfun]

Turnaround is fair play. Talk about your exes and say something like "... well, at least he had a big cock", and see how your current boyfriend reacts.

[LuckyEnough]

They're tits, they're good. He apparently values you for more than your tits, or... maybe he prefers yoyrs, and was indifferent about hers when dating her.

[Anonymous]

Well first things first. Whose boobs is he grabbing at night? His ex or yours? Secondly, like some guys mentioned... the fun with big boobs... does fade. It also seems like that's the only thing he liked about her, which is sad and you should be laughing about it too. Also, there nothing worse than an insecure person. Think about it, what would you think of an insecure guy? Personally, I like skinny girls they look good in all types of lingerie, petite and easy to pick up etc.

[OvershareGamer]

If your breast is going to be the sole reason to hold or break your entire relationship then it was not much of a worthwhile experience with the dude anyway.

[BigDaddy75]

Dont im sure yours are amazing just as they are and she is the ex not you 😉😉😉

[Anonymous]

he is a bitch if he says such a thing to make you insecure. you pedestalise a complete loser and an ashole. the joke is on you. step up your confidence, step up your dating game, and dump him

[Finchie40]

He is with you right so he wouldn't of been with you if he wasn't happy with you,

[Nivinxus]

Sounds like he is implying that apart from the fact she has the titties, she doesn't amount to much

[Malita55]

Guys typically don’t really care about boob size as long as they aren’t tiny.

[Chelseachelsea]

He is his ex for a reason. Quit worring about stupid things like that

[Anonymous]

I'll answer how people talk to guys who are insecure: "stop being a little bitch, no one. likes insecure people, be a man, go to the gym'

That is supposed to be helpful somehow.

[Thenightman19]

Dont be. Most of the women I've dated have had ds or higher but the girl i asked to marry me was more flatter than an ironing board but i tell you what. If he really loves you your breast size womt matter to him

[thenatiewitch]

Dump him. No man should make you feel like your body or personality sucks.

[DamnMan]

He likes you for the fact you don't look like that.
He probably went after them for their boobs and later realized how much they sucked.

[hansukota]

He's with u not her. they broke up. Quit being insecure

[michaelrosen]

Boobs are merely a plus in my eyes. I do love large busts, but that's not what or who you are. So be comfortable with it, or if you desire, change it!

[smrthomson]

Why do you guys even tallk about exs in the first plac😀😀😀

[Mapleshark]

That's what I was thinking lol😂

[smrthomson]

Soo, he brings up the topic you mean?😀😀

[Mapleshark]

No. I just think it's silly to bring out exs when it's clearly not necessary. It's quite funny

[smrthomson]

While next if he brings it up only if he brings it up you tell how you feel only do it if he bring it up then you could tell him how you feel insecure becaise you dont have the big ass or the boobs like his exs and he has to loove you the way you are on your terms and couple agreement ( both of yours..) If he lives it up, cool.. Be wiith him other wise better off because today he is making you low purposely or unattention tomorrow he'll make you feel unwanted or make you feel financially insecure or moree.. Loll😉😁
Goood luck with him
And hope he is the onne!😀😀

[Mapleshark]

I think u got it mixed up I'm not the one who asked the question😅 but thanks for the advice, I'm sure it will come in handy😊

[smrthomson]

😍😍😍

[Mapleshark]

😊😄

[CptNormalguy]

Honestly I wouldn't worry. I never chose a girlfriend because of her boob size.

[RizenFenix89]

Your worrying about something physical that will with time lose their shape and firmness. But your personality never sags.

[elementalArisen]

well, he probably likes you as a person, not just your physical features

[LuWe22]

No point in comparing yourself to a Ex. He is with you now so everything is okay

[IrishCanvas]

That's an abusive relationship if he's making comments like that. He's not respecting you and is not ready to be in a relationship

[Justin85283]

Boobs are overrated... Medium is the best size. How are you in the other departments? Ass? Bj? etc...

[Ligjter]

He likes you, big boobs are a waste of time. Small boobs are nicer and more sensative

[shawn4512]

"At least she had big boobs" sound like that was her one good trait

[Anonymous]

How stacked were they? And were they on the bigger side all around or were they thin with big boobs?

[omniknight]

Give those boobs timely massage it increses in size

[mmmmcccc]

He's obviously attracted to you you're just thinking too much

[SoloLanez]

He's With U Not His Ex, Don't Let That Effect Y'all Relationship.

[dark300016]

He will love your boobs because they are yours not the other way around

[leopizent]

Nah you should not worry about that guys dont only like boobs we mostly choose because of the face

[Anonymous]

Boobs are just boobs. It’s like a guy worrying about his dick size. Fine for middle school, meaningless afterwards. Besides I like boobs of all kinds.

[bootyeater]

Plastic surgery is what I suggest

[master21]

I like any boob size

[Anonymous]

Make him your ex!