Can black man truly LIKE skinny Asian girl?

[Anonymous]

My husband (black) and I (Asian) are in a happy marriage, he always say he loves me everyday , give all his paycheck to me since day one, never cheated in person.

The problem is my insecurity about how I look and his culture. For black people women are curvy with big boobs and butts , I'm 5'3 with 130 lbs (33-25-36) I'm really skinny and I feel like he has been lying that he LIKES me.

I have no doubts about he loving me because he shows me and I never thinks that he will ever die for any hoe but me.

BUT I don't think he LIKES the way I look. Behind my back he looks at Nicki Minaj type of girls ,, the list goes on you guys already know which celebrities have that type of body. He looked at them liked their twerking vids followed them.

None of them have my body type.

Well shit they had my body type but they did surgery lol

Men I have questions for u! Am I that ugly , why can't he like me. (I mean I know he loves me because I'm a wifey material just dont have that type of body for American style)

[Pyrofox]

I'd say to him you are unique. As to why he likes looking at Nicki Minaj and other pop culture celebs its part of being human. Its like we live in a society where there's always trend chasing and what not.

And if your worried about him not paying attention enough its okay once in a while with him to I guess what some may call age regress and take on the personality you had when you first met him. All it takes with relationship with marriage is just the validation and intrest to reignite the fire that led to it. Getting a man to love a woman isn't that complex you just need to mutually validate one another's interests.

[Curmudgeon]

But you are KIND. Odds are that the "Nicki Minaj type of girls" would be bitchy and nasty to him, no matter how "good" they may look.

He chose - YOU. Never forget that.

He sounds like a "passport bro" who, disgusted at what all too many "Black" / African American women have become (and what all too many "White" / European American women have become too, for that matter), came to find you in your native country (or did he come to your ethnic neighborhood in the USA, the more modest approach?)

[Anonymous]

It's important to remember that people are attracted to individuals for a wide range of reasons, and physical appearance is just one aspect. Your husband married you because he loves you for who you are, and it's evident from the way he treats you. Attraction can be subjective, and everyone has different preferences. It's not fair to compare yourself to celebrities or societal beauty standards. Your worth is not solely determined by your body type. If you have concerns or insecurities, it's best to communicate openly with your husband and share your feelings. Trust and communication are essential in any relationship.

[Anonymous]

If he loves why complain?

[Anonymous]

I don't see why not.