Search Results: showing interest

Why am I not getting the attention and compliments, money ect like other women?

I’m not pretty like other girls and I hate that. I try to gain men’s attention by dressing slutty ect… I really crave being desired by a lot of men. I caught myself liking this specific guy and I realized he wasn’t really...

Chelsdope0

Explorer Age: 28

Why don’t women chase men the way men are expected to chase women?

I’ve always noticed that in dating and relationships, there seems to be this unspoken rule: men are the ones who need to make the first move, approach, initiate conversations, ask for numbers, plan the dates, and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is this guy showing interest or genuinely complimenting me?

I’m sorry. I don’t date men (because I’m a lesbian). I never have, but I do get hit on by straight men from time to time. I kind of feel like this guy is hitting on me, but I want to be sure before assuming things and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you ever have someone hot and cold?

I figure that if someone’s genuinely interested in me they will show equal effort. I understand that things happen out of someone’s control but if someone flakes on me I won’t go out with them anymore. If they don’t seem...

Summeroflove

Influencer Age: 30

Society & Politics

Do Black people fuel racial divide by being overly sensitive to non-white people showing interest in their culture?

I constantly see many cases online over the years of non-white celebrities and social media personalities needing to apologize to black people and the so called "woke" mob for showing interest in black culture. Simple...

LarryWheels

Xper 5 Age: 24

I am a hopeless romantic. What does it mean if a guy hs a look in his eye?

Am I too romantic and what do I do if I read into stuff too much? What’s it mean if you meet a guy for the first time and you see his eyes and there’s a look in them that says he thinks you’re attractive It’s like it...

Jeijjjrur

Xper 1 Age: 34

My boyfriend lost interest?

He's not showing much interest into me, we haven't had sex yet but he's not showing any interest or excitement either I don't know what to do

Jeanne_neko

Xper 1 Age: 21

Flirting

Cute guy at my job keeps eyeing me, could he be interested or running game?

I (f 24) have been working at my job for about 3 weeks and there’s this handsome guy who’s been eyeing me for quite a while. We’ve said hi to each other a couple of times and I would almost always catch him watching me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do girls/women find it hot when their boyfriend or a good looking random boy/man in their age-range wants to armwrestle them and then beats them?

Do girls/women specifically mentally connect thinking it's hot to lose to a boy/man in armwrestling to the fact whether they're interested in him or not? Also, what would be the girls/women's favorite way to get defeated...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Genuinely what do I do?

So I am in a bit of a weird situation. A girl I got to know last summer suddenly was texting me heavily and showing interest in all parts of my life and noticeably asked questions about my love life. I developed feelings...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Other

What do you think may be a reason why I felt interest in seeing a picture of this person after they insulted the way I look?

They told me I look like shrek. They didn’t have a profile picture showing their face though. I just felt curious about what they might look like after they wrote the insulting comment to me.

Anonymous

(25-29)

Profile Picture Analysis (Unserious!!!)

PROFILE PICTURE SAYS A LOT! We'll do men first since majority of profiles here are blue. Call it gender discrimination! In this quite humourous post, I'll interpret whose profile signifies what based on their profile...

fonduegirl

Guru Age: 25

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Is my friend a pick me or am I overthinking (please read until the end)?

I have this beautiful friend who is super generous and i love her, she's unproblematic and outgoing and a green flag. but she isn't always herself around boys. I've been a rock/metal fan my whole life and when i...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Technology & Internet

I have a very interesting addiction?

I don’t know why, but I have this awful addiction—I’m terrified and hesitant about even the tiniest bit of my data showing up online. Every single day, I check and clear my phone’s storage, cache, app permissions, whether...

Anonymous

(25-29)

When is someone playing hard to get?

I am in a situation now and my friends say this girl is playing a little hard to get. I don’t know what she wants to happen because of this game but it is genuinely the only reason i wasn’t sure if she liked me. So this...

Anonymous

(18-24)

When you know someone clearly has the hots for you , the signs are there, Do you approach them first or wait for them to make the first move?

I see this girl every day when I go to work and she parks in the same parking garage as me and I notice wherever I park she parks next to me , I usually sit in my car for a little bit playing on my phone before walking...

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48

Why would someone with reductive thought patterns suddenly want to be friends when he doesn't value his interactions with women?

There's a guy I've known about a year now who has very callous, reductive thinking when it comes to women. That is, there's no difference in his mind between any of the women he's with whether they're in his life as...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Me and a former crush are locked in a "silent war". How to solve it?

To make a long story short: I was interested in a co-worker, but she did not corresponded to my advances. She was always cold, nonchalant and unresponsive when talking to me, but very flirty around other guys. So far, no...

AA10X

Xper 4 Age: 30