So I am in a bit of a weird situation.
A girl I got to know last summer suddenly was texting me heavily and showing interest in all parts of my life and noticeably asked questions about my love life. I developed feelings for her but when we got more direct and she literally asked me if I was into het I just told her.
She had mentioned before that she wasn’t focusing on herself. Well eventually she tells me she broke up with her boyfriend. Literally the same day she asked me if I was into her and I told her.
I didn’t even know she had a boyfriend and also the way she behaved in person (we saw each other a couple of times since we started talking last month, not alone though) she was very touchy and giggly etc.
Well I think she actually likes me, and I truly can look past that she had a boyfriend because I really fell for her. But at the same time I feel weird, like I should care more about that she hid not being single from me when she gave me that much attention/interest.
Now obviously she can’t jump into the next relationship. But anyone have any guesses at her motive for texting me (did she really like me?) since this convo she is a little less responsive. And if anyone had any advice on how to handles this, should I ditch her/have no expectations.
I don't know what to do, i really like her
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It does sound like she genuinely liked you, but it also sounds like she was emotionally confused and possibly leaning on you while her previous relationship was falling apart. The fact she hid having a boyfriend is something you should take seriously, even if you understand why it happened. Since you really like her, the best thing is probably to slow down, keep your expectations realistic, and see if her actions stay consistent once the emotions from her breakup settle.
Why ask anon?
I don't know, everyone I know knows her and need an insight from an outsider
No need to go anon. Just ask with your username
Oh like that.
But can you give an answer?