What am I supposed to do?

[Anonymous]

i'm texting this really cute guy and he's shown great interest in me, after 3 days of talking he asks me to be his girlfriend, i say no telling him to wait a little because well we don't know eachother, he says alright. we keep texting and flirting and he sends me these tiktoks about our futures together and now today he randomly texted me he doesn't know anymore, it's going too fast, he's not sure he wants a relationship. i tell him i'll wait and be his friend as long as he needs, he asks me back 'what if i never come' and i'm just like- what the fuck dude- because he asked me out 3 days ago and now it's moving too fast? he's the reason it's going to fast, i ask him if he just please won't block me out, i want to be his friend and be there for him, but he just says 'i'll try'. I'm so confused can anyone help me? did i do something wrong to make him crawl back?

[ohsheeT]

Don't be Confuse you're very smart by doing what you're doing.

First things first if he truly likes you he's not going to be pushing you in to things he will take it slow and respect you

A guy that is in a hurry only wants one thing.

Second thing you are the boss of you you make the rules. When you do this you are teaching him in order to be with you he needs to respect you. If he can't then he has to go there are many guys that will be coming and going in your life

This guy is unknowingly trying to warn you he's a bad guy and not the guy for you

Any guy that sayonething one day another thing the next day It's manipulating you


Your a smart girl you cought all his mistakes or his con. Yes his bull sheet story. You are cought up in the moment in stead of stepping back and looking at the whole picture.

Well I take that back you did listen and hear his words. This is why your asking this question.

It's more like your saying * your kidding me *

Are guys really this way. YES THEY ARE.

any guy that us real and wants to be with you fir really will be there for you no matter what.

Someone fake will tell you 20 different thing and be in a hurry. Because first thing he's going to want to do is make out

We both know this guy is not for you ever

[SueShe]

At your age, you should actually concentrate on your education and not start thinking of boys. Being cute does not mean that he is a decent person.

Of course he will show interest in you. After all, you are a woman and at this age, guys only have nonsense in their mind. You show him that you are the perfect victim for what he has in mind with you but the fact that you told him that he is moving too fast gave him a damper as he does realize he is not going to get into your pants as easily as he initially expected.

Have no doubts. Getting in your pants IS his main aim and guess what? Once he has achieved what he had intended, he will forget about you as quickly as he gained interest.

You did the right move to crawl back. It is not worth ruining your youth to be in a relationship so early in life.

[Abbycado]

He’s too pushy. Move on. It isn’t going to change.

[Anonymous]

I stopped reading at texting.

Young people have no idea on how to forge relationships.

[Asker]

i get what you mean but you have to know that i saw him in a musical of my friend, i didn't know the guy, i was planning to meet up with him before actually comitting or anything, but now it doens't matter anymore, he already left

[In_Trance]

Move on. Not the guy for you