What am I supposed to do?

[Anonymous]

So I went against cdc recommendations and got tested for hsv. I never had any symptoms or anything but I decided better safe than sorry. However what I received has ruined me. It Carmen suck positive but a really low positive. I was recommended to dearest but no one will unless I have an outbreak. That’s so dumb to me. How will I be sure? My doctors make it seem as if it’s no big deal. I haven’t slept with anyone prior or after the results but. I don't know if I should be disclosing that I have it if I possibly don’t. She didn’t prescribe me anything just told me it’s whatever. I don’t like that and I’m not sure what I should be doing. I’m losing my mind about it though. I want to know for sure. But how?

[Anonymous]

It's understandable that receiving a positive test result for HSV can be upsetting and confusing. It's important to remember that HSV is a common virus and many people have it without experiencing any symptoms or negative health consequences.

However, it's also important to take steps to manage your health and prevent transmission to others. If you have concerns about your diagnosis or treatment options, it may be helpful to seek a second opinion or to speak with a healthcare provider who specializes in sexual health or infectious diseases.

It's also important to consider disclosing your status to any sexual partners, even if you have not experienced any symptoms or outbreaks. This allows them to make informed decisions about their own health and to take steps to protect themselves.

Remember that you are not alone in dealing with this diagnosis, and there are resources and support available to help you manage your health and emotional well-being. It may be helpful to seek support from a therapist or support group, or to connect with advocacy organizations or online communities for people living with HSV.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

Holy shit! That sucks! Maybe you can get a second opinion or two though just to be on safe side? Well, one thought that popped into mind is that maybe this is a love filter. Guy really has to love a girl with HSV.

[Asker]

I guess no one wants to do a blood test on me and they have nothing to swab so I don't know what else I could possibly do about it. I don’t feel like the results were accurate but i can’t find anyone to retest it

[BungusHighFivePizza]

How do you think you might have contracted this if you did if I may ask?

[Asker]

Oh I’m not a virgin, but I have. Ever had unprotected sex not that that means anything. But the last time was over 5 months ago. They keep stating how common it is for false positive or for people to have it and i honestly don’t really know how to get a for sure answer

[BungusHighFivePizza]

In that case maybe just false positive! Have to double-check it as I see with a pro. I can hardly tell you.

[Asker]

Well thanks anyway, I’m not dating at the moment but if I were to start should I disclose? I’m quite young and in college I know how people are despite it being so common. Should I tell people “oh I might have herpes”?

[BungusHighFivePizza]

Maybe you can do the slow way. It's usually better anyway. Buy a vibrator. And you know, I'm sure your girlfriends can give you better advice than me but you can sort of tell if a guy is catch, including in the bedroom.