Search Results: too scared to talk to girls

I’m scared to talk to guys because I think they’ll ignore me because I’m average. How do you talk to guys and do guys usually ignore average girls?

I’ve never had male friends or male family members aside from my dad or much older male family members. I have 0 socialization with guys my ages. They never speak to me so I never speak to them. Other girls my age have...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How can I get over my trust issues?

hey everyone, I really hope that someone might be able to help me because I feel so sad and don‘t know what to do anymore. My last relationship was pretty bad. my ex boyfriend cheated on me many times and always blamed it...

leaemiliaaa

Xper 3 Age: 25

I need help, what do I do when she says she needs space?

I've been dating this girl since my divorce, she is smart, she loves animals, we connect at many levels. We kissed, but did not went further, we met several times, the point is, after going out (driving outside the city,...

DL1210

Xper 4 Age: 35

After nearly 2 weeks of taking a "break", boyfriend is still undecided on what to do - advice?

Almost 2 weeks ago, he requested to take a short break so we could think without having each other around. I agreed and asked for how long. He said just a couple days. He told me he wouldn't be messing with other girls...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He isn’t my boyfriend but is very possessive of me and my body? Is it possessiveness or controlling?

The guy isn’t my boyfriend and has said he has no romantic interest but I catch him looking at me all the time. I was the only girl he chased for years. But I left him because I was afraid of attachment and his...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My ex finally got arrested for domestic violence on someone else.. I’m upset that justice took so long

In 2014, I was beaten so badly by my ex and he got away with it every time. He beat me for so many years😭😭 we broke up and he was sending text messages to his phone as if it was me. He was also beating on that girl and...

Paradiseequeen

Explorer Age: 35

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Flirting

What are the best places to meet and talk to young women IRL?

Note: since modern dating and modern society as a whole as been drastically different post-pandemic. I would only want young women (ages 16-22) and young men around the same age to respond. I know not to try to talk to...

Wolfboy333

Xper 1 Age: 22

Am I bad a girlfriend if I don’t like my boyfriend’s friends?

i trust them and all but the thing is he has this one girl bestfriend that he is SUPER CLOSE with and my boyfriend is really understanding and caring towards me and will do anything for me (i do the same too) but i’m just...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I get over my ex if we both still like each other?

So me and this guy, let's call him Jake. Me and Jake have known each other since August of last year. I used to constantly flirt with him etc etc. Me and him are close friends and before we dated he talked about a girl he...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Men, how would you feel if your girl is afraid of you?

I’m in this situation in which I did something stupid (childlike) to my boyfriend, he cursed me and told my relatives. I was deeply hurt by this and didn’t expected him to overreact this way as my intentions weren’t to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I think my friend wants to be more than my friend?

I have a close work friend. We’re both bi girls. She’ll spontaneously touch my shoulder while talking and once we were talking about veins and she traced her finger up my veins. We had a joking argument and she stared at...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Education & Career

Did I take it too far?

Just before Christmas I fell out with a work friend he wasn't very nice about others and was a pathological liar as well a rumour spreader and he was bullying a learning disabled man at our work. I blocked him on all my...

Puppystarfish23

Yoda Age: 28

Flirting

Any time I like a guy in real life I off put him because I have no social cues only with men. How do normal do I speak to guys at all?

I have no social skills when it comes to guys and it's terrible I can only talk to girls. When I make guy friends the friendship fades because I can't go up to them to speak unless they speak to me first. I get so weird...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is this flirting just friendly?

I have this close friend and we work together. We laugh together and tell each other everything. We’re both bisexual girls. She’ll spontaneously touch my shoulder while talking and once we were talking about veins and she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this platonic flirting or is she actually in love with me?

I have a close friend and we work together. We laugh together and tell each other everything. We’re both bisexual girls. She’ll spontaneously touch my shoulder while talking and once we were talking about veins and she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I fall in love and I am so happy to change my situation for comments?

When we met first time as friends, I had interest (but I was wrong) on other person and she finished a very bad relationship with her ex boyfriend. We had so intense affection each other and we solved olur problems so...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I think a woman tried to catfish me on OKCupid using photos of another real local woman? Should I identify the real person & let her know?

So here is the timeline of events: I comment on a OKC girl’s profile. She responds and we start a conversation. I give her the my phone number and she texts me from a local number I notice a day later her OKC profile goes...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Could she be the one for me?

So I’ve been trying to find my significant other for so long, and out of nowhere, I met this cute Chinese girl who’s my age (I’m a Mexican American guy). And I never met anyone like her. It’s like I instantly fell in...

Anonymous

(30-35)