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If you have time pls read and answer this too. As a teen I used to be EXTREMELY down on myself. No confidence or self esteem, name any physical attribute on my body at all and I will tell you what I thought was wrong with it. Everyone around me would scold me for criticizing myself so harshly. Now that I have FINALLY grown out of those insecurities and accept myself as I am, I feel confident, I like how I look, but I NEVER express it in any way, so the response from others has been very strange. In my new workplace of about 50ppl I hear comments from guys talking to eachother, things like ''oh she thinks she's so sexy...'', ''she thinks all the guys are inlove with her...'', ''she thinks she is hotter than other girls...'' nothing close to what I actually think lol, I feel like I just recently grew out of years of self hate and learned how to love myself, but I don't love myself THAT MUCH. And the thing is this is not the first time, last place I worked I heard similar comments. I've been trying hard to understand how am I sending this vibe? I dress very casually, not revealing, I hardly ever wear makeup, I don't talk about my own or other appearances at all, I am not stuck up, nice to everyone, the only thing I can think of is I am a bit shy and quiet so perhaps they think I'm stuck up. So what could it be? How could they possibly come to conclusions like this?

I met a decent guy and felt he liked me (locked eyes, asked me personal questions within limit, was caring). I liked whatever I got to know about him. He acted sincere and respectful at all times. Over dinner with common friends, I noticed him very subtly looking at my boobs. It was a very sincere glance, not creepy at all.

I have big boobs and now wondering if guys look at boobs of a girl they are probably just lusting over,

Or do they also do that for a girl they may sincerely like.

I've lost 100 pounds and with clothes i look normal, but i do have loose skin, its not too crazy, but i do have some and its really been bugging me because its like i was super insecure being fat so i did something about it, and now that I'm at a healthy weight i have a NEW insecurity and its my loose skin, and so now i worry that that no guy will date me because some parts of my body aren't tight, my inner thighs and around my private, the skin is a bit loose, and also my belly.

This girls thighs are a little more loose than mine but this is the CLOSEST i could find to how mines look (the pic on the left)And my stomach is kind of like this, i was thinking about getting a tummy tuck to tighten things up

I know its not a turn on, but i wonder if its a deal breaker