Why are guys so into me but girls are not?

[tommy6942069]

I'm a straight guy who has dated a lot but never had a real strong lasting relationship. I don't know why lately I don't get matches or messages anymore on dating apps. This morning really got to me as to question my very nature and hope regarding a happy future for myself. My new bumble made two days ago had 4 likes, 1 had gone leaving 3. I started swiping and a gay young guy popped up. Weird because I'm set to girls meaning he set his gender to female. I swiped left and bumble tells me I missed a match. Sad that 1 of 3 was a guy, so every girl in my area is not into me and swiping left. So what is it this "guy" is seeing that he likes that girls are not? Do I look gay? People have bullied me and teased me my whole life calling me gay for fun. I don't get why, I walk, talk and act like a man and have dated girls so I really don't get why people judge my looks and acts to be homosexual. Then I keep swiping and got 1 girl thankfully. The last 3rd of the 3 likes was yet again, a gay guy. Leaving behind 1 match with a girl which hopfully works out.

[Guy13]

You look kind of feminine like momma... Go for the Marine high and tight or some model high-speed hair. You have thick and wavy hair and the right stylist can do wonders with that !!

[PetiteBabe64]

Agreed

[PetiteBabe64]

What he needs is to Grow his beard out He wants to Look manly but refuses to Let His beard grow out.

[TheSpaceGnome]

You are overthinking this, gay men hit on straight guys sometimes, its rare but its going to happen because gay guys are like 3% of the male population, so even though they already know we are straight, they think it doesn't matter, they flirt anyway.

Imagine if only 3% of women were straight, how thirsty would men be for lesbians?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Secondly, its rare for women to initiate.

[lauraanne02]

Try growing out your beard and cutting your hair shorter

[TheSpaceGnome]

Ignore her, long hair and a clean face aren't "gay traits".

[WhiteBoyChill]

@TheSpaceGnome No she’s right. He just can’t pull it off

[TheSpaceGnome]

@WhiteBoyChill No, You're both definitely wrong.

[WhiteBoyChill]

1) Using dating apps is a waste of time

2) Stop giving a fck about what other people think

3) You do look gay