Why do guys ghost and play with girls even if they are attracted to them?

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Why would a guy use a girl for sex then ghost her if he is attracted enough to sleep with her. She’s also he’s type and he said “it’s a shame u live far away we could of seen each other more.” And the girl has a nice personality and caring towards him but they live too far from each other and he did mention how long distant never work however he still had sex with her and broke his promises into meeting her the next day When she came to visit him. he didn’t meet her because work came up he said he’ll see her after work but never got back and ghosted her all of a sudden. Also the day before all this after sex he was affectionate towards her by coming towards her and kissing her and goofing around then when he went home he hugged her goodbye and kept on saying he’ll see her tomorrow after work but didn’t and then she got upset and brought it up by texting him how upset he made her and feels like he’s just used her for sex he unfollows her. Why? Also before she went to go see him she made it clear how she doesn’t want to get used and he got offended saying “if u think I’m gonna use u I’d rather not have sex with you, I’m not the type to use or take advantage of anyone. But he literally did. I’m I going crazy or what?
Why do guys ghost and play with girls even if they are attracted to them?
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